Recover From Negative Thinking

Is Not As Hard As It Seems


Hello World & Happy Day My Friends πŸ’—πŸ€—

Last night I was up pretty late talking to a friend that wanted to know how I stay so positive through all that I’ve been through, especially since my son passed away and I really had to think about it πŸ™„πŸ€”.

My friend is the type of person that always goes straight to the negative about almost everything. She doesn’t think the world is against her yet she does go straight to the “what if’s” immediately. 

Last night she asked me what she could do to change her mindset to being more like mine.. More positive and stop going to the “what if’s” all the time and I said: 

“Laugh hard at the yuck, when things happen find a solution and move on… immediately!” πŸ€”..

Now I’m not always positive, yet I try my best not to think of the “what if this or that happens” cause I feel I’d never get anywhere thinking like that… 

When something happens I usually laugh.. Hard.. cause crying over spilt milk doesn’t clean it up πŸ˜‰ πŸ™„.

I’m fully aware that shit happens that we don’t expect and I sure don’t look at the world through rose colored glasses, yet I don’t assume the worst ever. 

I basically live moment by moment and when things happen I immediately look for a solution and never ever do the poor pitiful me or why me thing cause I don’t believe things happen TO ME…

I just believe that shit happens πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜€. (Sounding a little Forrest Gump here 😁)

So this morning when I woke up I tried to think of something that could make her laugh when shit happens and I immediately thought of this poem, made a pic and sent it to her… 

I told her to hang it up and anytime something happens and she finds herself going to the negative, go look in a mirror and say 

“Hello My name is _____ and I’m a recovering negative thinker!” 

When she got the photo she said all she could do was laugh and it worked… πŸ˜€πŸ˜Ž

So my friends… 

Today if drama comes calling, respond but don’t react.. Cause laughter and a big huge smile will stop negative thinking in it’s tracks πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Have a drama free day world πŸ˜€

Ricci πŸ’•

Welcome To Being Human

Negative Thoughts Happen To Us All


Hello World,

Have you ever had a negative thought pop up out of the blue? Welcome to being human cause it happens to everyone else too πŸ€”πŸ˜πŸ€”

Thinking a not so encouraging thought is 100% normal… Shift your thought, let it go and do your best to get back to the present and tune out the negative thought…πŸ™ƒπŸ€”πŸ™ƒ


It won’t be very easy at first yet with practice you’ll get better and better at turning down the volume of those yucky negative thoughts… Stay as positive as you can and chase the thoughts away… Our mind is very powerful, shift your thoughts altogether and have a beautiful day🌞🌻


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You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would do… I cannot do this alone and need your help to do so. I’m so very close and with your help I can continue the journey to heal my heart and learn to live my life without my son… It’s not going to be an easy journey spreading his ashes at all the places he wants me too yet I know that I AM ready and I am NOT alone… because I have all of you!!! T

he active link is below please help if you are able or share the link to help my story get out there and I thank you all for all your support…

 I AM grateful 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci ❀

To Think or To Feel

That’s A Hell Of A Question


Hello World,

Our minds are very powerful yet can be tricky too… It can guide us along our way and can confuse us on what we should do.πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

Getting your heart and your mind to match is not an easy task… Our minds will tell us one thing and or hearts will say something totally different. So which one do we listen to? How do we know if we should go with what our mind says or go with what we feel… Both of them are a part of us, both of them are real..  β€πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€

I believe in following my heart and what I feel inside cause my gut reaction has always been right and my mind sometimes will tell me to flee, to fight or hide… πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€

Go with what you’re feeling and listen to your gut… Cause your mind can be a tricky place and you don’t want to live a life of if’s, and’s or but’s…… β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€

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You all know my story and what I’m trying to do and yesterday a very special person and someone I hold deep within my heart helped me get closer to my dream. I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic and be able to continue the journey I promised my son I would do… ❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀

Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link in my bio so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and heal… I AM ready πŸ™β€πŸ™

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci ❀