Recover From Negative Thinking

Is Not As Hard As It Seems


Hello World & Happy Day My Friends πŸ’—πŸ€—

Last night I was up pretty late talking to a friend that wanted to know how I stay so positive through all that I’ve been through, especially since my son passed away and I really had to think about it πŸ™„πŸ€”.

My friend is the type of person that always goes straight to the negative about almost everything. She doesn’t think the world is against her yet she does go straight to the “what if’s” immediately. 

Last night she asked me what she could do to change her mindset to being more like mine.. More positive and stop going to the “what if’s” all the time and I said: 

“Laugh hard at the yuck, when things happen find a solution and move on… immediately!” πŸ€”..

Now I’m not always positive, yet I try my best not to think of the “what if this or that happens” cause I feel I’d never get anywhere thinking like that… 

When something happens I usually laugh.. Hard.. cause crying over spilt milk doesn’t clean it up πŸ˜‰ πŸ™„.

I’m fully aware that shit happens that we don’t expect and I sure don’t look at the world through rose colored glasses, yet I don’t assume the worst ever. 

I basically live moment by moment and when things happen I immediately look for a solution and never ever do the poor pitiful me or why me thing cause I don’t believe things happen TO ME…

I just believe that shit happens πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜€. (Sounding a little Forrest Gump here 😁)

So this morning when I woke up I tried to think of something that could make her laugh when shit happens and I immediately thought of this poem, made a pic and sent it to her… 

I told her to hang it up and anytime something happens and she finds herself going to the negative, go look in a mirror and say 

“Hello My name is _____ and I’m a recovering negative thinker!” 

When she got the photo she said all she could do was laugh and it worked… πŸ˜€πŸ˜Ž

So my friends… 

Today if drama comes calling, respond but don’t react.. Cause laughter and a big huge smile will stop negative thinking in it’s tracks πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Have a drama free day world πŸ˜€

Ricci πŸ’•

Time For Laughs & Smiles

No Stressing Allowed

Hello World & Happy Day My Friends 😁

This morning I had to run to the store and I noticed all the stress on people’s faces as they were shopping πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”.

It seems the closer we get to Christmas the more stressed people get… 

SOOOOOOO I decided to make a couple of Christmas song videos to brighten everyone’s day πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ˜πŸ€—.




Have a beautiful day my friends filled with smiles and laughter πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ˜.

Ricci πŸ’•

A Smile Can Change Everything

A Smile Is From The Heart

Hello World & Happy Day My Friends πŸ’—πŸ€—

The last few days have been difficult for me… Trying my best not to fall into a depressed funk from missing my son badly and just lots of things on my mind.. πŸ€”πŸ˜–

Yet today I was at the little country store where I live and there was the cutest little baby sitting in it’s stroller staring at me…

As soon as I made eye contact with him, he gave me the biggest smile and of course it made me smile big right back…😁😁😁 

I asked his mom how old he was and she said he was almost 5 months… I complimented his beautiful smile and then the oddest thing happened… πŸ™„

As I went to walk away he started cryingπŸ€”I kept walking and his cries got louder… 

So I had to walk back and as soon as he saw me he stopped and smiled huge…I smiled back and giggled and went to walk away and omg he started screaming again hahahaha πŸ˜‚..

His mom and I laughed cause every time I tried to walk away he started screaming…… 

His Mom asked me if I wanted to hold him and so of course I said yes and OMG as soon as I put him in my arms he started laughing hard… Which of course made me and his mom laugh and she said he’s never ever done that… 

Why he did I don’t know yet I walked them out to her car, put him in his car seat gave him a kiss on his forehead and said… Thank you little man.. You just made my day πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ’—…

He smiled huge and this time didn’t scream when I walked away…πŸ€”πŸ’—πŸ€”.

Now I’m not sure why that happened and yet I do believe it was a sign from the universe letting me know my son is ok or maybe a sign from my son … 

Yet more than anything I do know that the power of a smile cause truly change your mood… πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ’—πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ’—

So my friends don’t forget to smile today at everyone you see… Cause a little smile can change the world and make it a beautiful place to be πŸ€—πŸ’—πŸ˜.

Ricci πŸ’•

Stop, Pause, Take A Break

Do Something For You


Hello World,

It doesn’t matter if you’re working, it doesn’t matter if you have the day off… Stop, pause and take a break or go for a beautiful walk… We tend to get so busy, that we forget to stop and play… So no matter what you’re doing.. make sure you have a GREAT DAY!

Going to be working in the bus today and will post pics of the work in progress… Gonna take the rest of the seats out today and so so excited every time I step Inside of the bus… So happy, so excited and so very blessed… Thank you all for helping me live my dreams and helping me honor my son… Huge love to you all every moment of every day… So very very grateful… NOW GO HAVE A FANTABULOUS DAY 🌻😘🌻
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There are a few costly items I’m going to need help with to complete the bus and so I’m asking if anyone knows where I can get a 1000 watt inverter, a 100 or 200 watt solar panel kit and a small electric cooler or mini fridge to help me complete the bus, It will be greatly appreciated … I will be leaving my gofundme link active for anyone that would like to help… Or if anyone has one of those items they would be willing to donate please email me or comment. The active link is below. 

I’m so so excited to continue converting the bus. Thank you all for all your help it’s time to get the bus ready for my beautiful journey to heal and to continue to grow

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a beautiful day world πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—

Ricci πŸ’•

Kindness Is The Key

To Changing Our World Everyday


Hello World,

Kindness truly changes our world and changes people every day… You’ll never know what a little kindness can do to help people get on their way…

Take the time to share a smile or lend a helping hand… Take the time to spread some love too whomever, whenever you can… To make someone’s day brighter doesn’t cost a thing… So take the time to spread some sunshine…..kindness is the key πŸ˜˜πŸ’–

I truly am ready to begin my journey of healing and to spread my sons ashes along the way… I am so close to doing this and with your help I can and as difficult as some days will be I know I’ll be ok because of all of you that are here with me each and every day β™₯

Please help if you are able for EVERY LITTLE BIT helps or share the link below so I can continue my journey of honoring myself and honoring my son. I’m down to needing $105 to pay off the mechanic and bring the bus home and begin converting it so I can live comfortably and be safe on the road….I truly believe that it is time to continue my healing journey and I am ready. πŸ’–πŸŒ»

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Hope everyone had a fun and safe 4th… Much love add smiles to you all. 🌹 Goodnight Universe 🌹

Ricci πŸ’•

Smiles Are Contagious

Just One Can Travel Around The World


Hello World,

Happy Independence Day Every Day My Friends 

Smiles truly are contagious and can brighten up your day… It’s such a beautiful feeling when someone throws a smile your way… πŸ˜€

So no matter how your day unfolds.. stop a minute and smile… It may be just what someone needs to make their day worthwhile πŸ˜€
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I truly am ready to begin my journey of healing and to spread my sons ashes along the way… I am so close to doing this and with your help I can and as difficult as some days will be I know I’ll be ok because of all of you that are here with me each and every day β™₯

Please help if you are able for EVERY LITTLE BIT helps or share the link in my bio so I can continue my journey of honoring myself and honoring my son. I’m down to needing $105 to pay off the mechanic and bring the bus home and begin converting it so I can live comfortably and be safe on the road….I truly believe that it is time to continue my healing journey and I am ready. πŸ™πŸ’–

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a safe and Happy 4th world πŸ’–πŸ˜πŸ’–

Ricci 😁😘

When Life Throws Limes At You

Rearrange The Letters To Say Smile


Hello World,

Every day isn’t easy, yet we tend to complicate it more… When your day is over forget it and close the door…

Life will throw limes in your path, yet when you rearrange the letters it says smile.. So take those limes and throw them away and make tomorrow worth while.😊❀😊❀😊

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You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would do… I cannot do this alone and need your help to do so. I’m so very close and with your help I can continue the journey to heal my heart and learn to live my life without my son… It’s not going to be an easy journey spreading his ashes at all the places he wants me too yet I know that I AM ready and I am NOT alone… because I have all of you!!!

The active link is below, please help if you are able or share the link to help my story get out there … I thank you all for all your support… I AM grateful

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

   πŸ˜Šβ€πŸ˜Šβ€πŸ˜ŠGoodnight Universe😊❀😊❀😊

Ricci ❀