Don’t Stuff Your Feelings

Cause They Always Come Back


Hello World, 

In the past few days I’ve had a bunch of feelings and emotions pop up out of nowhere yet because I’ve learned to allow them rather then to fight or stuff them, I’ve also learned that I feel 100% better when I deal with them and work through them right away. 

In the past if it was fear of something or sadness I’d stuff the feelings or ignore them as if they weren’t there, trying to be a “strong ” person and not let things get to me… Showing your feelings isn’t a sign off weakness, it’s actually a sign off strength,  a sign that does you are REAL yet society doesn’t help in that manner and neither does education and or sometimes people. 

We are taught from a child to NOT cry, NOT to show or say how we truly feel, NOT to let others see when your hurting etc and I just don’t get that because it always comes back no matter what it comes back 10 fold, and it’s harder to deal with cause it brings up years of past shit and it when we last expect it too and then we just have to deal and heal from it all over again😡🤔😡

Feelings are a part of our being and to hide them is hiding who we truly are!!  Always always allow yourself to feel.. Whether you’re mad, glad, sad or scared don’t hide how you feel, don’t stuff them and don’t pretend they aren’t there cause when we deal with them head on they are temporary.. When we stuff and hide them they last forever until we deal with them head on. So feel them, show them, allow them and process them cause when you do you’ll be glad you did!! 

Goodnight Universe 🤗❤

Ricci 💕

Take A Deep Breath Or Two

It Really Helps Calm You Down too


Hello World,

I love the smell of lavender it’s such a soothing scent… Yet taking deep breaths are soothing too especially when your emotions are spent…😢❤😢

We all know this is a hard weekend for me yet with all of your love and support it gets easier a little each day… So I just wanted to say thank you my friends and send a reminder your way…😘🌻

We all go through different emotions, some happy and some very sad… Take a deep breath or two… And when you find yourself out of sync… Deep breathes will calm you down too…🌻❤🌻😘🌻❤

There are a few items I still need to get so I can complete the bus and make it livable.. If anyone knows where I can get a 2000 watt or higher inverter, a 200 watt solar panel kit, an electric cooler or mini fridge to help me complete the bus, It will be greatly appreciated. 😘❤😘

My gofundme link is still active for anyone that would like to help… Or if anyone has one of those items they would be willing to donate please email me, send me a direct message or comment below. The active link is in my bio. Please click Read More to read the fully story and help if you are able or share the link so WE can continue converting the bus and move forward with my journey to heal and honor my son.. much love my friends 🙏❤🙏

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a beautiful day world 🌻

Ricci 💕

Moments Make Memories

Memories Make The Story Of Your Life

Hello World,

Don’t take life so seriously that you forget to live your life fully… We get so wrapped up in or daily routines that we tend to forget to stop and smell the roses, we forget to see the beauty that surrounds us every day… We forget to fully live and love our daily lives, love what we do and love who we truly are… We forget about the little things that make us smile each and every day 🤔❤🤔

Take time to embrace and enjoy every moment of every day, take time to stop and smell the roses, take time to simply be… Cherish every moment of every single day for it’s the moments that make all the memories and those memories make up your life story… Enjoy each moment, make tons of memories and love the life you live while living the life that you love 😘😍😘

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You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would do… I cannot do this alone and need your help to make this journey to heal and live not only my dream, my life. Please help if you are able, or share the link below… I’m so very close to continuing my journey to heal, to learn to continue without my son and to learn to live again… Much love to you all and thank you for all your love, support and belief in me and my goal…I AM GRATEFUL!!!!  

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey
 🤗😴🤗😴🤗 Goodnight Universe🤗😴🤗😴🤗

Ricci❤

Every Choice Has A Consequence

Some Good, Some bad


Hello World,

We all have many choices we have to make each day. Yet every choice has a consequence sometimes bad and sometimes good… We have to be careful of the choices we make so our choices turn out as they should.

We tend to act before we think and that’s not good to do… Make sure to think before you act so the consequences turn out good for you! 

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You all know my story and I cannot do this alone. I’m still $628 away from getting the bus so I can begin making it livable and I need help paying the mechanic to make it road ready and safe for me to drive.

The active link is below and I’m so close… Please help if you are able or share the link if you can… I’m ready to begin my journey to heal and with your help I can!!!

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

😴💫🌎 Goodnight Universe 🌎💫😴

Ricci 🙏❤

A Little Kindness 

Goes A Long Way

Hello World,

Today in America it’s Memorial Day a day to honor and remember those who lost their lives protecting our lives, our freedom and our world… Yet for me it’s not just about veterans, it’s about ALL who we’ve lost that dedicated their lives to being kind and helping others along the way.

My son was one who always put others before himself, a trait that he learned from me cause I’m the same way myself and I will always be. Kindness is a special give that comes from within our hearts and it doesn’t matter what you do, it just matters that you start!

We may not be able to change our world in a single day… Yet one by one we CAN help our world get better in every way…🌏❤🌍❤🌎❤

Bus Update— To get the bus mechanically sound so I don’t get stuck on the road, it’s going to cost $628, then insurance and registration is another $225 … Sooooo here I am again asking for your help…

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Most of you know my story and I cannot do this all by myself… I really would like to be on the road by July cause otherwise I’ll be traveling in the snow which and the places my son wanted his ashes spread are closed from mid October through May…  So there’s my dilemma and I’m asking for help to get this done. The active link is above and below and with your help I can get on the road, safely and before it gets cold. 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a beautiful day my friends and thanks to all that have and continue to help me on my journey to heal. I AM grateful ❤🙏❤

Ricci ❤

Everything In Life Has An Opposite

Your Behaviors and Actions Do Too

Hello World,

Life is filled with opposites and we get to choose which one… How we react to all situations is how the situation turns out.

Not everything in life will turn out as we like and we don’t have control of how others react yet we do have control over how we react…

Everything in life has an opposite … Remember that your behaviors and actions do too… 

💫😴 Goodnight Universe 😴💫 

Ricci ❤

I’m so close reaching my goal.. And I’m asking for your help to do so. Most have read my story and know what it’s about. Please help if you are able and or share my link to get my story out and make my dream my reality. I’m ready to heal and ready to live again and we are so close to making this my reality so I can keep my promise by honoring my son and sprinkling his ashes at the places he wanted me too… Thank you all for sharing and thank you for all your support.

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci 🙏❤🙏