Recover From Negative Thinking

Is Not As Hard As It Seems


Hello World & Happy Day My Friends πŸ’—πŸ€—

Last night I was up pretty late talking to a friend that wanted to know how I stay so positive through all that I’ve been through, especially since my son passed away and I really had to think about it πŸ™„πŸ€”.

My friend is the type of person that always goes straight to the negative about almost everything. She doesn’t think the world is against her yet she does go straight to the “what if’s” immediately. 

Last night she asked me what she could do to change her mindset to being more like mine.. More positive and stop going to the “what if’s” all the time and I said: 

“Laugh hard at the yuck, when things happen find a solution and move on… immediately!” πŸ€”..

Now I’m not always positive, yet I try my best not to think of the “what if this or that happens” cause I feel I’d never get anywhere thinking like that… 

When something happens I usually laugh.. Hard.. cause crying over spilt milk doesn’t clean it up πŸ˜‰ πŸ™„.

I’m fully aware that shit happens that we don’t expect and I sure don’t look at the world through rose colored glasses, yet I don’t assume the worst ever. 

I basically live moment by moment and when things happen I immediately look for a solution and never ever do the poor pitiful me or why me thing cause I don’t believe things happen TO ME…

I just believe that shit happens πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜€. (Sounding a little Forrest Gump here 😁)

So this morning when I woke up I tried to think of something that could make her laugh when shit happens and I immediately thought of this poem, made a pic and sent it to her… 

I told her to hang it up and anytime something happens and she finds herself going to the negative, go look in a mirror and say 

“Hello My name is _____ and I’m a recovering negative thinker!” 

When she got the photo she said all she could do was laugh and it worked… πŸ˜€πŸ˜Ž

So my friends… 

Today if drama comes calling, respond but don’t react.. Cause laughter and a big huge smile will stop negative thinking in it’s tracks πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Have a drama free day world πŸ˜€

Ricci πŸ’•

Fear Is Just A Feeling

And Feelings Come and Go


Happy Happy Joy Joy Jones Here… 

Wishing everyone a fantabulous day πŸŒ»πŸ€—

And to remind you that fear is just a feeling and feelings come and go…  so when scary feelings get in your way, be stronger than the fear itself and do it anyway πŸŒ»πŸ€—

It finally stopped raining and it’s a beautiful day so I’m going to tackle the skill saw again and make the counter top for my kitchen sink πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€”πŸ™„ afraid no scary yes yet I’m gonna do it ❀❀❀ will post pics tonight as more flooring is done too so very excited doing what I love to do. 😘❀

In order for me to have electricity to run the fridge and other things while I’m stopped at night without using the engines battery, I need a 2000 watt inverter and two 12volt marine batteries which costs $364 total. I would also like to get a 200 watt solar panel kit which would keep the inverter batteries charged at all times and the cost for the kit is $390. My gofundme link is still active and is also just below, for anyone that can help. Thank you to all that have helped me get to where I am today, words can’t express my gratitude for you all πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»πŸ€—

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a fantabulous day world πŸŒ»πŸ€— 🌻 πŸ€—

Ricci πŸ’•

Storms Don’t Last Forever

You Just Have To Keep Pushing Through


Hello World,

It seems there’s been quite a few people that have been having a pretty hard time, feeling sad, things going wrong and feeling that they don’t belong… Not every day is a good day, yet you must keep pushing through cause storm’s don’t last forever, even on days that feel like they do.

We all have those hard days, some seem like they won’t ever end… Yet hard days don’t last forever… Just keep holding on my friends ❀

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You all know my story and my dilemma and I cannot do this alone. I’m still only $628 away from getting the bus so I can begin making it livable. I was able to get the bus insured and registered and now I only need help to pay the mechanic to make it road ready and safe for me to drive. I am ready to begin my healing journey, spread my sons ashes and continue living life. 

The active link is below… Please help if you are able or share the link if you can… I’m ready to begin my journey to heal and with your help I can!!! 

Much love to you all and thank you thank you I AM Grateful 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

🌞🌻🌞 Have A Beautiful Day World 🌞🌻🌞

Ricci ❀