Don’t Look For Perfection

In Anything That You Seek

Hello World and Happy Day My Friends๐Ÿค—

This morning while walking my dog I saw the most beautiful butterfly sitting on a flower….

It sat there for what seemed like forever (of course I didn’t have my phone with me to take a pic ๐Ÿ˜ซ) and while I was staring at it I noticed that it’s wings weren’t truly identical ๐Ÿ˜ฎ.. the markings were slightly different ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ…

All my life I thought butterflies were perfect… I thought that their wings were identical in markings and had never really had the chance to stare at one long enough to notice that they actually aren’t ๐Ÿ˜ฎ… That there are flaws, that as beautiful as they are…

They aren’t perfect!!! ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿค”

Why is it that strive for perfection??

In all reality we know that nothing in life is perfect…

Perfection is a fallicy cause everything has flaws yet we strive for something that can’t really be obtained cause there’s no such thing ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿค”

So today I made a pact with myself to stop looking for or expecting things to turn out perfect cause as long as I’m doing my very best…

My best is perfect for me… ๐Ÿค—

I truly believe that once we stop looking for perfection and we learn to except and embrace not only what we do but WHO we are and we accept all of our flaws .. Our lives become perfectly perfect for us…๐Ÿค—

It doesn’t matter what others think about you…

What matters is what YOU think about yourself!!! ๐Ÿค”

So don’t look for perfection in anything that you seek

Love ALL you are & ALL your flaws cause you’re beautiful & unique๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿค—

Have a beautiful uniquely you day ๐Ÿ’—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Striving For Perfection

Makes Everything Harder To Do

Hello World 

Happy Day My Friends ๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒป

Last night while I was finishing a few things in the bus (see a couple night time photos below๐Ÿ˜)… I started looking around and of course immediately started picking apart the little things that in my head weren’t perfect and as I was doing it I caught myself and started laughing ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜‚. Like the little lights that on one end will NOT stay up lol

It’s not like I’ve been hired to convert the bus for someone else and things have got to be on point… right… I’m not getting paid to do it lol

The bus is for me and me alone… Yet I started thinking about how much we strive for perfection and compare what we do or have done with others! Hmmmmm๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿค”.

Nothing in life is perfect, not even human beings….. Yet we strive to be the best or we aim to do or have something better than everyone else and everyone’s best is different.. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Instead of striving for perfection just do your very best… your best will always be different cause you’re different from all the rest… 

Don’t compare what you do or have done with what others have done or do… Cause that’s setting yourself up for disappointment just stay true to you! ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜

Goodnight Universe ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿค—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Self-Empathy, Self-Love

Have Compassion For Yourself Too


Hello World,

This morning I was washing the outside the bus cause It’s absolutely beautiful outside and a neighbor stopped by… We started talking about positive self-talk and self-empathy and how it’s so easy to have empathy and compassion for another yet we are so very hard on ourselves ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”.

We tend to “expect” perfection from ourselves yet we know what having expectations do…. ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„

They can set you up for failure and make you think you’re not good enough too… 

So swap out the “I’m not good enough” with “I’ll always do my best!” Stay positive and believe in yourself and let faith do the rest ๐Ÿค—โค

Have a beautiful day world ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿค—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Don’t Beat Yourself Up

Mistakes are lessons learned


Hello World,

Not every day is a good day and that is really okay… We all make some mistakes don’t let it ruin your day ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿค”

Don’t beat yourself up for any mistakes as long as you gave it your best… Mistakes are lessons we all have to learn… Let them go and get some rest…. Tomorrow is a brand new day and a fresh new start… Don’t carry the mistakes of today so they tear your tomorrow apart…

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You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would doโ€ฆ I cannot do this alone and need your help to do so. Iโ€™m so very close and with your help I can continue the journey to heal my heart and learn to live my life without my sonโ€ฆ Itโ€™s not going to be an easy journey spreading his ashes at all the places he wants me too yet I know that I AM ready because I have all of you the active link is below… please help if you are able or share the link if you can…. I AM gratefulโค

 https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

๐Ÿ˜ด๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ˜ด๐Ÿ™โคGoodnight Universeโค๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ดโค๐Ÿ™โค

Ricci โค

Things Aren’t Always Difficult

When You Look From A Different Point Of View


Hello World,

Whenever we’re doing something and it just isn’t going right… We tend to get up in our heads & want to flee or fight…๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ˜ต

Instead of getting frustrated… Step back and look around… Count to ten and start again, you’ve got to stand your ground โ˜บ

Not everything will go your way, no matter what you do..yet things can be less difficult when you see it from a different point of view! โคโ˜บ

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You all know my story and I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would doโ€ฆ โค๐Ÿ™

Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link before, so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and continue to healโ€ฆ 

I AM ready 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

๐Ÿ’–๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ˜ด Goodnight Universe ๐Ÿ˜ด๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ’–

Ricci โค