Recover From Negative Thinking

Is Not As Hard As It Seems


Hello World & Happy Day My Friends πŸ’—πŸ€—

Last night I was up pretty late talking to a friend that wanted to know how I stay so positive through all that I’ve been through, especially since my son passed away and I really had to think about it πŸ™„πŸ€”.

My friend is the type of person that always goes straight to the negative about almost everything. She doesn’t think the world is against her yet she does go straight to the “what if’s” immediately. 

Last night she asked me what she could do to change her mindset to being more like mine.. More positive and stop going to the “what if’s” all the time and I said: 

“Laugh hard at the yuck, when things happen find a solution and move on… immediately!” πŸ€”..

Now I’m not always positive, yet I try my best not to think of the “what if this or that happens” cause I feel I’d never get anywhere thinking like that… 

When something happens I usually laugh.. Hard.. cause crying over spilt milk doesn’t clean it up πŸ˜‰ πŸ™„.

I’m fully aware that shit happens that we don’t expect and I sure don’t look at the world through rose colored glasses, yet I don’t assume the worst ever. 

I basically live moment by moment and when things happen I immediately look for a solution and never ever do the poor pitiful me or why me thing cause I don’t believe things happen TO ME…

I just believe that shit happens πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŽπŸ˜€. (Sounding a little Forrest Gump here 😁)

So this morning when I woke up I tried to think of something that could make her laugh when shit happens and I immediately thought of this poem, made a pic and sent it to her… 

I told her to hang it up and anytime something happens and she finds herself going to the negative, go look in a mirror and say 

“Hello My name is _____ and I’m a recovering negative thinker!” 

When she got the photo she said all she could do was laugh and it worked… πŸ˜€πŸ˜Ž

So my friends… 

Today if drama comes calling, respond but don’t react.. Cause laughter and a big huge smile will stop negative thinking in it’s tracks πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Have a drama free day world πŸ˜€

Ricci πŸ’•

Be Awe-Inspired By You

Shake Off The Yuck


Hello World,

We all go through some mornings when we wake up feeling blue… It’s a normal feeling even though it can ruin what you’d like to do

Yet on those days that it happens try your best to smile and shake it off.. Do something that will make you laugh and something you love to do…. Then it will change the mood you’re in and you’ll be an awe-inspiring YOU

A few of my friends woke up today not feeling the best and when I read that this poem popped into my head… We have total control of our feelings even though it may seem like we don’t… Shake off the yuck and fill it with smiles cause it will make your day better for you!!! Smiling my friends is easier when we shake off the yuck πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ˜

There’s a few costly items I’m going to need help with to complete the bus and so I’m asking if anyone knows where I can get a 1000 watt inverter, a 100-200 watt solar panel kit and a small electric cooler or mini fridge to help me complete the bus, I would be extremely grateful… I will be leaving my gofundme link active for anyone that would like to help… Or if anyone has one they would be willing to donate please DM me. The active link is below and I’m so so excited to continue converting the bus. Thank you all for all your help it’s time to get the bus ready for my beautiful journey ahead

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a fantabulous day world 😁🌻😁🌻

Ricci πŸ’•

Emotions Are Temporary

Feelings Are Not


Hello World,

Emotions and feelings are two different things although they can feel the same… Emotions are usually temporary and rarely last to long… Feelings can last forever and are always very strong 😒

We tend to make decisions when our emotions are off the chart… Then we tend to regret what we said cause it came from our emotional mind not our heart ❀

Try not to make any decisions when you are really mad or upset… Cause words are very powerful and you might say something you’ll later regret!

Today was very emotional for me and it’s been a hard couple of weeks.. It’s 48 days away from the day my son passed away in my arms and my emotions and feelings have been off the chart. 

You all know my story and what I’m trying to do and today a very special person and someone I hold deep within my heart helped me get closer to my dream. I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic and be able to continue the journey I promised my son I would do…

Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link below so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and heal… I AM ready 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey 

Thank you all for all your love and support. I AM GRATEFUL πŸ™β€πŸ™

πŸ˜΄πŸ™β€ Goodnight Universe β€πŸ™πŸ˜΄