Hello World & Happy Day My Friends
I’ve never been one to sugar coat anything and have actually been told I can be brutally honest sometimes yet for me I’d rather have someone tell me the outright truth even if I may not want to hear it then to sugar coat or patronize me 🙄
Yesterday I got a tad hard on the mom of the little boy I babysit…
ok not a tad… I did let her have it…
And afterwards I thought oops maybe that was a little harsh… And just as I went to apologize to her for being so harsh.. She came up to me, gave me a big hug and thanked me for basically calling her on her shit… Then proceeded to tell me that’s why she loves me so much 😱
It made me take a look at myself and actually made me smile because looking back I realized I’ve always been this way… It’s just who I am 😉
We always tend to be harder on ourselves and although I’ve made bad choices throughout my life, have been hurt and have hurt, have trusted the wrong people, have given, been taken from and have made lots of mistakes…
The bottom line is….
And honestly I wouldn’t change a thing…🙄
It’s taken me a long time to like…No to love who I am and to embrace my good and bad sides…To accept who I am and make changes when necessary… And I’m ok with who I am today 😁
I guess my point is…
Learn to love who you are and to embrace all that you are…
If there’s something you don’t like within yourself…
Just remember YOU ARE YOU and don’t change for anyone.. except you..
Just always be true to YOU 💗
This morning while having my coffee my friend started taking about regrets and how she wished she wouldn’t have done this or that throughout her life and it made me think 🤔🤔🤔
So I asked her why she doesn’t do those things now and she couldn’t give me a reason why she couldn’t 🙄🤔🙄.
All our lives we are told we have to do this, we have to do that… And we are also taught that we have to earn the right to do something we love or we’re told as a child that something we want to do like being an writer, a dancer or an actress isn’t a feasible career… Hmmmmm?? 🤔🤔🤔🤔
There is no set time for you to do the things you love to do..
As they say..
“Dreams don’t have an expiration date!”
So follow your instincts, follow your heart, follow your passion it’s now time to start!.
Have a beautiful day world 🤗💗🤗💗🤗
Just Take It Step By Step
Challenges whether new or old can really stress you out… Yet stressing out does nothing but bringing up more doubt 🤔🙄.
So don’t worry about the end result just do the steps one by one and know that everything will work out and you will get it done! 😃😀😃😀😃
Yesterday figuring out the fresh water tank was easy as can be but figuring out where to drain the water was getting the the best of me… So I decided to take a break to look at it a different way and just when I stopped worrying about it I woke up with the answer today… 😉🙃😉.
I sometimes get so wrapped up inside my head that I sometimes cannot see.. The answer that I was looking for was right in front of me. 😌🙄😒😏
Moral of this story… Sometimes we look so far ahead that we wind up wasting time so take a break and a couple steps back and things will fall in line!
Have a beautiful day world 🌻♥
You really are unstoppable when you believe in yourself… You didn’t get to where you are by sitting on a shelf… You’ve gone through lots of different things to get where you are today…. Trust your intuition and keep on moving further each day. 😊❤😊
There’s nothing that can stop you from achieving all your dreams… All you have to do is believe, cause it’s not as hard as it seems ❤🙏
You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would do… I cannot do this alone and need your help to do so. I’m so very close and with your help I can continue the journey to heal my heart and learn to live my life without my son… It’s not going to be an easy journey spreading his ashes at all the places he wants me too yet I know that I AM ready and I am NOT alone… because I have all of you!!!
The active link is below, please help if you are able or share the link to help my story get out there … I thank you all for all your support… I AM grateful ❤🙏❤🙏
🙏❤🙏 Goodnight Universe 🙏❤🙏
Negative Thoughts Happen To Us All
Have you ever had a negative thought pop up out of the blue? Welcome to being human cause it happens to everyone else too 🤔😁🤔
Thinking a not so encouraging thought is 100% normal… Shift your thought, let it go and do your best to get back to the present and tune out the negative thought…🙃🤔🙃
It won’t be very easy at first yet with practice you’ll get better and better at turning down the volume of those yucky negative thoughts… Stay as positive as you can and chase the thoughts away… Our mind is very powerful, shift your thoughts altogether and have a beautiful day🌞🌻
You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would do… I cannot do this alone and need your help to do so. I’m so very close and with your help I can continue the journey to heal my heart and learn to live my life without my son… It’s not going to be an easy journey spreading his ashes at all the places he wants me too yet I know that I AM ready and I am NOT alone… because I have all of you!!! T
he active link is below please help if you are able or share the link to help my story get out there and I thank you all for all your support…
I AM grateful
That’s A Hell Of A Question
Our minds are very powerful yet can be tricky too… It can guide us along our way and can confuse us on what we should do.🤔🤔🤔🤔
Getting your heart and your mind to match is not an easy task… Our minds will tell us one thing and or hearts will say something totally different. So which one do we listen to? How do we know if we should go with what our mind says or go with what we feel… Both of them are a part of us, both of them are real.. ❤🤔❤🤔❤🤔❤
I believe in following my heart and what I feel inside cause my gut reaction has always been right and my mind sometimes will tell me to flee, to fight or hide… 🤔❤🤔❤🤔❤
Go with what you’re feeling and listen to your gut… Cause your mind can be a tricky place and you don’t want to live a life of if’s, and’s or but’s…… ❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤
You all know my story and what I’m trying to do and yesterday a very special person and someone I hold deep within my heart helped me get closer to my dream. I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic and be able to continue the journey I promised my son I would do… ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link in my bio so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and heal… I AM ready 🙏❤🙏
Getting Back Up Is Living
I wasn’t going to post tonight because I’ve been all emotional mess all day… Yet I’ve had so many beautiful comments and support about my loss that I didn’t want to go to sleep without saying THANK YOU.
Thank you all for all the beautifully kind words and support through this very difficult time in my life… You have all helped remind me that even with all the negativity in our world today, there’s just as many, if not more, beautiful people out there that still have beautiful hearts and souls and for the reminder and for all of you I AM GRATEFUL….
For those that are new to my blog… WELCOME…. My blog is about my healing journey from losing my son a little over a year ago and it’s been the hardest journey in my life.
My daughter-in-law started a campaign for me (because of my limited disability income) so I can purchase a van that will be big enough for my mobility wheelchair and to honor my sons last wishes and sprinkle his ashes at all the places he wanted to see. Please take a look at the campaign and if you can help I thank you and truly appreciate it in advance, if not if you could share the link I would truly appreciate it. I’m ready to keep my promise and more importantly I’m ready to begin my healing journey! I’m ready to live again 😢
Much love to you all and thank you for taking the time to read my blog, it means so very very much. Sweet dreams my friends
💫 Goodnight Universe 💫
🙏❤💫 Ricci 💫❤🙏