Hello World and Happy Day My Friends π€
It truly baffles me when something shitty happens, no matter if it’s huge or if it’s tiny, we tend to hold on to it for so long that it ruins our day or days for that matter π€¨π€¨π€¨
This weekend I allowed a shitty situation to take over my whole weekend π€¬ why?? I don’t know…
It’s not like I could control it…
It’s not like it was done TO me intentionally and even if it was there’s absolutely nothing I could do about it yet I let it control me, make me angry, make me get all stressed out, then depressed blah blah blah…
When in all reality because there was nothing I could do I should’ve just processed it and let it go π€¨π€¨.
Now I’m not saying that I should’ve stuffed my feelings about it..
Never do that..
Yet once I processed it and figured out what I needed to do, if anything, I should’ve just let it go and moved on…
But nooooooooo I allowed it to swell up in my head and ruin my weekend π©
It wasn’t until last night when a couple of amazing women I’m in a group with asked me about my old GoFundMe account and it dawned on me that sweating it was truly a waste of time all I needed to do was ask for help π
It’s always been really hard for me to ask for help and it still is… Even though I know that my NOT asking for help denies others the same pleasure and good feeling I get when I help someone..
Go figure huh π© π©
My point in all this is… Don’t allow a bad 5 minutes to ruin your day or get you stuck on stupid… it’s so much easier to move on when you don’t sweat the small stuff..
And remember…
There’s nothing wrong with asking for help when you really need to.. You know how good it feels when you help someone… So don’t deny the good feeling it gives to others when they want help you!!! πππ…
Have a beautiful day world π
Ricci π