Always Be True

To You

Hello World & Happy Day My Friends

I’ve never been one to sugar coat anything and have actually been told I can be brutally honest sometimes yet for me I’d rather have someone tell me the outright truth even if I may not want to hear it then to sugar coat or patronize me πŸ™„

Well…

Yesterday I got a tad hard on the mom of the little boy I babysit…

ok not a tad… I did let her have it…

And afterwards I thought oops maybe that was a little harsh… And just as I went to apologize to her for being so harsh.. She came up to me, gave me a big hug and thanked me for basically calling her on her shit… Then proceeded to tell me that’s why she loves me so much 😱

It made me take a look at myself and actually made me smile because looking back I realized I’ve always been this way… It’s just who I am πŸ˜‰

We always tend to be harder on ourselves and although I’ve made bad choices throughout my life, have been hurt and have hurt, have trusted the wrong people, have given, been taken from and have made lots of mistakes…

The bottom line is….

I’m me…

And honestly I wouldn’t change a thing…πŸ™„

It’s taken me a long time to like…No to love who I am and to embrace my good and bad sides…To accept who I am and make changes when necessary… And I’m ok with who I am today 😁

I guess my point is…

Learn to love who you are and to embrace all that you are…

If there’s something you don’t like within yourself…

Change it…

Just remember YOU ARE YOU and don’t change for anyone.. except you..

Just always be true to YOU πŸ’—

Ricci πŸ’•

Believe You Can

And You Will


Hello World

Yesterday was the first day I didn’t post at all in 6 months and although I felt off at different times and moments throughout the day for not posting, I wasn’t in the right frame of mind to do so😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒

My best friend, my soulmate friend, my rock and sister that I’ve known for 40 yrs mother passed away and I didn’t know how to process it with all that I’ve been going through myself πŸ€”πŸ™„ 

So I decided to take a sabbatical, a day to just process my feelings, a day to allow myself to feel the loss of her mom, to cry and scream too..a day to just be me and allow it πŸ™„πŸ€”

It’s truly amazing what we can endure no matter what life throws at us and as long as we believe in ourselves there is nothing that can’t get through..

Never ever stop believing in the strength you have within, never ever stop knowing that you CAN endure and get through ANYTHING that life throws at you… You only have to believe 

Ricci πŸ’•

Life Smiles Back At You

When You Live A Positive Life


Hello World,

As Children are Taught The Golden Rules.. Do Onto Others, As You would have them do into you… I haven’t lived that way all my life but now I truly do… And I can actually truly say I’ve lived most of my life like that too πŸ€—β€

Today was an incredible day, a heartwarming and productive day on the bus too…. Yet tonight a very special friend that has turned into my Family said something in a response to one of my posts on Instagram that made me stop and think… πŸ€”

After my son passed away I became a very bitter, angry and very depressed soul, I lost me for over 18 months and when I made the decision to change my life and get me back it wasn’t an easy task… I was always a happy happy made everyone smile type of person and when I a started being me again life surrounded me with the most incredible souls and I wrote this because I’m so grateful for all of you and because it’s really true too……..πŸ€”πŸ™„

That saying what comes around goes around  is really very true… Cause when you live your life in a positive way, life smiles right back at you 😁❀

I’m now only needing help to get the 2000 watt inverter and the 200 watt solar panel kit for me to have electricity inside without using the engine batteries while stopped at night. The active link is below for anyone that can help or share the link if you can and Please click on β€œRead More” under the picture of me and my son to read all about me and my journey πŸ˜˜πŸ˜

Thank you all for sharing you… I am πŸ™πŸ€—

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Goodnight Universe β€πŸ€—

Ricci πŸ’•

Our Words Create Our Reality

So Choose Positive Words Every Day


Hello World,

We all have good days and bad days yet it’s up to you to decide on which one… Our words create our reality so pick ones that make your day fun 🌻

Today I’m working on the kitchen part of the bus and so very excited… (Will post pics of it later)

Yet right when we we’re putting the kitchen cabinet in (which was giving us a hard time) my friend says “it’s gonna be impossible!” and it made me stop in my tracks cause nothing is impossible and I made her take the word back… 

Hahaha as soon as she said. “I take that word back”  we got the cabinet in without an issue… Haha so do your best to use positive words all throughout your day… Cause once you start using negative words you just ruined a beautiful day 

Still needing help to get some things I need for the bus conversion. If anyone know where I can get a 2000 watt inverter, an electric cooler, and a 200 watt solar panel kit please let me know. My gofundme link below is still active and those are really the only things left that I’m needing help with to complete the bus and begin my journey to sprinkle my son’s ashes and heal… The full story is under the picture of me and my son in the campaign just click on β€œRead More” to read it all. Much love my friends and thank you for all your love, support, kindness and light β€β€πŸ™πŸ™β€β€

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Goodnight Universe ❀😘❀

To Think or To Feel

That’s A Hell Of A Question


Hello World,

Our minds are very powerful yet can be tricky too… It can guide us along our way and can confuse us on what we should do.πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

Getting your heart and your mind to match is not an easy task… Our minds will tell us one thing and or hearts will say something totally different. So which one do we listen to? How do we know if we should go with what our mind says or go with what we feel… Both of them are a part of us, both of them are real..  β€πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€

I believe in following my heart and what I feel inside cause my gut reaction has always been right and my mind sometimes will tell me to flee, to fight or hide… πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€πŸ€”β€

Go with what you’re feeling and listen to your gut… Cause your mind can be a tricky place and you don’t want to live a life of if’s, and’s or but’s…… β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€πŸ™β€

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You all know my story and what I’m trying to do and yesterday a very special person and someone I hold deep within my heart helped me get closer to my dream. I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic and be able to continue the journey I promised my son I would do… ❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀

Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link in my bio so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and heal… I AM ready πŸ™β€πŸ™

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci ❀

Allow Yourself To Feel Pain

That’s The True Meaning Of Strength


Hello World,

Pain is painful..it’s as simple as that. It can hurt you to your core and some hurts worse then others..Yet pain is pain no matter what it’s from, the important thing is how we deal with it and what we do with it too. πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

Having the strength to pick yourself up and dust yourself off when you fall, to learn from it and take that wound and turn it into wisdom is empowering and comes from deep within and when you allow yourself to feel it, its the biggest strength of all. β€πŸ™β€

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You all know my dilemma and I can’t do it alone so please help if you are able or share the link to help me get my story out there. The active link is below and I am ready to begin my healing journey, spread my sons ashes and continue living life. I truly appreciate all your love, support and belief in me and am truly grateful for you all. πŸ™β€πŸ™

β€πŸ’« Goodnight Universe πŸ’«β€

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https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci πŸ™β€