Self-Empathy, Self-Love

Have Compassion For Yourself Too


Hello World,

This morning I was washing the outside the bus cause It’s absolutely beautiful outside and a neighbor stopped by… We started talking about positive self-talk and self-empathy and how it’s so easy to have empathy and compassion for another yet we are so very hard on ourselves ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”.

We tend to “expect” perfection from ourselves yet we know what having expectations do…. ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„

They can set you up for failure and make you think you’re not good enough too… 

So swap out the “I’m not good enough” with “I’ll always do my best!” Stay positive and believe in yourself and let faith do the rest ๐Ÿค—โค

Have a beautiful day world ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿค—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Life Isn’t Perfect

Neither Are We


Hello World,

Happy Day My Friends and Happy Fathers Day to all the dad’s and to all the moms that play both roles ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜Š

Lately I haven’t been able to get expectations out of my mind and the expectations I hold over myself. I do know that we shouldn’t be hard on ourselves especially when things don’t go as planned yet we tend to do it anyway even of it’s something that we don’t have any control of… ๐Ÿค”

Try your best to throw away any expectations you hold onto you… Cause expectations in any form stop you from doing things that you can do ๐Ÿค”โค๐Ÿค”
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You all know my story and I only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would doโ€ฆ I cannot do this alone and need your help to make this journey to heal and live not only my dream, my life. Please help if you are able, or share the link in my bioโ€ฆ Iโ€™m so very close to continuing my journey to heal, to learn to continue without my son and to learn to live againโ€ฆ Much love to you all and thank you for all your love, support and belief in me and my goalโ€ฆI AM GRATEFUL!!!!  ๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‡๐Ÿ™‡
~~~~~~~~~~โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค~~~~~~~~~~
https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Things Aren’t Always Difficult

When You Look From A Different Point Of View


Hello World,

Whenever we’re doing something and it just isn’t going right… We tend to get up in our heads & want to flee or fight…๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ˜ต

Instead of getting frustrated… Step back and look around… Count to ten and start again, you’ve got to stand your ground โ˜บ

Not everything will go your way, no matter what you do..yet things can be less difficult when you see it from a different point of view! โคโ˜บ

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You all know my story and I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic to be able to continue my journey and convert the bus like I promised my son I would doโ€ฆ โค๐Ÿ™

Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link before, so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and continue to healโ€ฆ 

I AM ready 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

๐Ÿ’–๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ˜ด Goodnight Universe ๐Ÿ˜ด๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ’–

Ricci โค

Be Careful Of Your Expectations

Nobody Does Things Just Like You


Hello World,

Today while I was scrolling through IG I saw a very good friends @dope.aspirations post that made me really think about the expectations we put on others without even realizing we are doing it. ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

Even little things… Like asking your kids to fill the dishwasher and then getting upset with the way they did it! Did they fail you… NOOOO.. They just didn’t do it like YOU would have and that’s an expectation! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Be careful of what you expect from others because no one can really fail you, they can only do things as they do. Nobody fails intentionally and nobody does things just like you! 

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You all know my story and I cannot do this alone. Iโ€™ve tried to change the amount I need on my gofundme campaign yet it wonโ€™t allow me too, Iโ€™d have to start a brand new campaign which is crazy yet I only need $628 more to pay the mechanic. Please help if you are able or share the link so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes and healโ€ฆ I AM ready 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey ๐Ÿ™

Thank you all for all your love and support. I AM GRATEFUL ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜˜

๐Ÿ˜ดโค๐Ÿ˜ดโค Goodnight Universe โค๐Ÿ˜ดโค๐Ÿ˜ด

Ricci ๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™

Don’t Take Anything For Granted

It’s The Little Things We Forget

Hello World,

We tend too take things for granted and not realize how some of things we do on a daily basis affects others… It could be something we do without realizing it, or something that is so habitual that we don’t even realize we do it yet it’s something big to someone else…. ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

Last night was the first time I didn’t post a goodnight post because I had a lot on my mind and this morning when I woke up I had over 26 messages from people here, on FB and on my blog asking me of I was ok and it truly surprised me…. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

When I started posting my poems and my quotes, I was doing it like a journal to write down my thoughts, little reminders to myself and to help me heal from the loss of my son… I didn’t ever think that my thoughts would have the effect on others as it has and I had an overwhelming feeling of gratitude and it showed me how important it is to not take anything we say or do for granted. ๐Ÿ˜Š

It reminded me that as much as we may think or feel that what we say or what we do doesn’t affect others…. It does…. What we may be going through, others may be going through too… It helped me see that none of us are ever alone โค

Don’t ever take anything you do or say for granted cause even a warm hello, a simple smile or a positive goodnight post may be small to you, yet could be a life changer for someone else.. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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You all know my story and I cannot do this alone. Iโ€™ve tried to change the amount I need on my gofundme campaign yet it wonโ€™t allow me too, Iโ€™d have to start a brand new campaign which is crazy yet I only need $628 more to pay the mechanic. Please help if you are able or share the link below so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes and heal… 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey
Thank you all for all your love and support. I AM GRATEFULโค๐Ÿ™

๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ˜Š Have A Beautiful Day World ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒž

Ricci โค

Just Be Yourself

Be Creatively You


Hello World,

Always be WHO you are inside and out… Not everyone will like you, not everyone will agree, not everyone will feel as you do because they aren’t you!!!

We’re all different, all unique, we’re all originally true… Be yourself, be who you are and be creatively YOU โค๐Ÿ˜โค

You all know my story and I cannot do this alone. Iโ€™m still $628 away from getting the bus so I can begin making it livable and I need help paying the mechanic to make it road ready and safe for me to drive. โคโค

The active link is below and Iโ€™m so closeโ€ฆ Please help if you are able or share the link if you canโ€ฆ Iโ€™m ready to begin my journey to heal and with your help I can!!! โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ™๐ŸŒž Have A Beautiful Day World ๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ™๐ŸŒž

Ricci โค