Don’t Stuff Your Feelings

They Always Find Their Way Back


Hello World, 

I haven’t posted a goodnight post in a while and not because of any reason other then I couldn’t think of anything to write ๐Ÿค”

Most of you know that all my posts, poems and quotes are written by me and that they really are about what I’m actually dealing with myself at that moment in time.. ๐Ÿ™„.. (It truly does take me longer to find a background image for my writing than it does to write what I write lol) 

Yet I’ve learned through my writing and by the beautiful responses I’ve received that I am not alone in my thinking nor am I alone with what I’m going through on a daily basis.. Good, bad or indifferent it’s life.. 

I’ve also learned from experience through the years, that stuffing my feelings doesn’t do anything other than compressing them into a ball that gets bigger the more I stuff and no matter what they always come back and always when you least expect it and they do come back tenfold… ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Moral of this story: Don’t stuff your feelings cause they only come back to haunt you.. so deal with things as they come up cause no matter how hard they may be to face… In the long run you’ll be glad you did! 

Goodnight Universe..

Much love and sweet dreams ๐Ÿ’•

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Life Is Filled With Lessons

When We Look At Things That Way


Hello World,

Yesterday I couldn’t get my thoughts to settle down.. it was a very emotional day and I couldn’t stop and think… Of why my head would not shut up and let me swim not sink… ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”

We all go though days like that and there’s really no reason why…  yesterday was a day like that for me so I just processed it and cried…  today I’m feeling better and I woke up with a smile ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒป  I’m back to working on the bus at least for a little while ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿค—…

Not every day will be a sad one, not every day will be good… Just process what you’re going through and go through the day as you should… Cause life is filled with lessons when we look at them that way… And when we fully realize that we’ll have a much better day… ๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ˜€ 

Iโ€™m back to working on the bus so I can begin my journey and keep my promise to my son spreading his ashes where I promised him I would and live our dream โค The total I need to get everything in order for me to have electricity to run the fridge and other things while Iโ€™m stopped at night without using the engine battery is down to $554 and I am so grateful.๐Ÿ˜€โค๐Ÿค—

I am still needing a 2000 watt inverter and two 12volt marine batteries as well as a 200 watt solar panel kit which would keep the inverter batteries charged at all times ๐Ÿค— My gofundme link is still active and is below for anyone that can help or if anyone knows where I can get those things cheaper please let me know. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ™

My goal date to embark on my journey is my sonโ€™s birthday October 4th and Iโ€™m so close, itโ€™s right around the corner and Iโ€™m so excited to begin โค๐Ÿค—โค

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Have a beautiful day world ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿค—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Our Words Create Our Reality

So Choose Positive Words Every Day


Hello World,

We all have good days and bad days yet it’s up to you to decide on which one… Our words create our reality so pick ones that make your day fun ๐ŸŒป

Today I’m working on the kitchen part of the bus and so very excited… (Will post pics of it later)

Yet right when we we’re putting the kitchen cabinet in (which was giving us a hard time) my friend says “it’s gonna be impossible!” and it made me stop in my tracks cause nothing is impossible and I made her take the word back… 

Hahaha as soon as she said. “I take that word back”  we got the cabinet in without an issue… Haha so do your best to use positive words all throughout your day… Cause once you start using negative words you just ruined a beautiful day 

Still needing help to get some things I need for the bus conversion. If anyone know where I can get a 2000 watt inverter, an electric cooler, and a 200 watt solar panel kit please let me know. My gofundme link below is still active and those are really the only things left that Iโ€™m needing help with to complete the bus and begin my journey to sprinkle my sonโ€™s ashes and healโ€ฆ The full story is under the picture of me and my son in the campaign just click on โ€œRead Moreโ€ to read it all. Much love my friends and thank you for all your love, support, kindness and light โคโค๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™โคโค

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Goodnight Universe โค๐Ÿ˜˜โค

Set Healthy Boundaries

You’ve Got To Know When To Say No


Hello World,

Sometimes setting boundaries aren’t very
easy to do… Especially when someone we care about is stuck not knowing what to do…
Yet sometimes we just have to say no, we have to strand our ground… Cause other people issues can stress you out and that can weigh you down…. ๐Ÿค”

Setting healthy boundaries shows that you’re aware, of all the things you can and can’t do, it doesn’t mean you don’t care…. Saying no is a complete sentence and it shows that you are strong… Don’t let others make you feel bad cause saying no isn’t wrong โค๐Ÿ˜‰
…………………………………โค๐Ÿ™โค…………………………………….

You all know my story and I need $328 more to pay the mechanic โ€ฆI cannot do this alone and need your help to do so. Iโ€™m so very close and with your help I can continue the journey to heal my heart and continue to live my life โ€ฆ Itโ€™s not going to be an easy journey spreading my sons ashes at all the places he wants me too yet I know that I AM ready and I am NOT aloneโ€ฆ because I have all of you to help me when it get hard…๐Ÿค—โค๐Ÿค—โค
…………………………………โค๐Ÿ™โค……………………………………

The active link is below, please help if you are able or share the link to help my story get out there โ€ฆ I thank you all for all your supportโ€ฆ I AM grateful

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒปHave A Beautiful Day๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒž

Ricci โค

Love Never Dies

It Remains Within Your Heart Forever

Hello World,

Mother’s day is always a difficult day for me… I lost my mother 31 yrs ago yet there’s isn’t a day that goes by where I don’t wish she were here to comfort me through my loss… 

Yet I know in my heart my sons with her and they are with me every day… I will always miss and love them all the time yet in my heart they will always stay…

โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™

Happy Mother’s Day  

๐Ÿ’ซ Goodnight Universe ๐Ÿ’ซ

Ricci โค

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Bottling Up Your Feelings

Is A Time Bomb Waiting To Explode


Hello World,

Hiding how we truly feel whether good or bad is detrimental to our health, physically, spiritually and emotionally… It can eventually make you explode and say or do things that you wouldn’t normally do if you would have dealt with it in the first place…

Showing your feelings is healthy and it doesn’t matter if you’re a male or a female you’ve got to get things out and not bottle them up inside cause that’s a time bomb waiting to explode

My favorite quote I’ve ever written was after my mother passed away… I was 26 and my father had passed away years before that… The quote has helped me through more life situations then any I’ve ever written and it is:

“Crying cleanses the soul & laughter heals it..” 

I truly believe that is true and no matter what you’re going through one day you’ll look back and laugh because you’ve moved on and gotten past whatever it was… 

Allow yourself to feel my friends and don’t ever be afraid to show it… As long as you’re not harming yourself or others…. Then let it out and let it go…

…..

You all know my story and I am only $980 away from reaching my goal and getting that shuttle bus. Iโ€™m so close and have 9 days to get it paid off and get it off the property where it is and I am asking for your help because I cannot do this aloneโ€ฆ We canโ€™t do everything by ourselves and thereโ€™s no shame in asking for helpโ€ฆ 

.So here I am again asking for your help to please help me get this bus!!!

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

I totally get that times are tough and most of you donโ€™t know me, yet this is so very important to me and I need your help to make it happen. I’m ready to begin my journey to heal .. I’m ready to keep my promise and honor my sons last wishes… 

Please help if you are able or share my story so that together we can make this possible for me to doโ€ฆ The active link is above and belowโ€ฆ 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Thank you all for sharing you with meโ€ฆ.and thank you for being on this difficult journey with me.. For it’s all of you that have helped me see that I will not be and am not on this journey alone!!! ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ˜˜โค๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜โค๐Ÿ˜˜๐ŸŒป

Much love and gratitude to you always my friends…

Have a beautiful day โค๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒปโค