When Things Don’t Go YOUR Way
Hello World 🌻 Happy Day My Friends
After posting about my latest setback with the bus and about my belief about timing…I got a lot of comments about how people admired my tenacity, strength and perserverence as well as my staying positive through it all 🤔
It made me look back on everything that has happened since I brought the bus home and I actually looked back on my whole life 🤔
All my life people have said that I was tenacious and I never really thought about it until today…
I’ve always been a go getter when it comes to something I want and I’ve never ever been a quitter… It’s just not in my nature to do so…
So I guess I am tenacious 😂
Yet for me there is no other way…
I never understood why people give up so easily on their dreams and it’s never ever crossed my mind to do so, especially with this bus project.
My point in all this is:
We all have the drive and the power to achieve whatever we want to achieve…
Perserverence is in our blood…
It’s truly part of our makeup and who we are..
Sometimes we just need to reach deep to find it.. 😉💪😉..
So do not get discouraged when things don’t go your way… Keep on doing what you need to do and go about your day..
Cause life is like an obstacle course with lots of ups and downs.. So don’t let setbacks stop you.. Stay strong and stand your ground!! 💪💖💪
Have a beautiful day world 💖
What’s Meant To Be Will Be
I’ve always been one that believes that if it’s meant to be…it will happen and if it isn’t it won’t…
Yet still I have day’s where I get upset with myself or feel guilty when I set a date for a goal and don’t reach the date set or it gets pushed back for whatever reason 🤔🙄🤔.
Those are the times when I must remember that things don’t always work out in your timeframe and if it’s meant to be it will happen…
Instead of being hard on myself I need to be patient and keep moving towards whatever goal I have set for myself 🤔🙄🤗
We tend to get impatient and then feel guilty when we don’t hit our goals on time.. So don’t be too hard on yourself and push the guilt out of your mind..
Cause guilt gets us nowhere and halts where we’re heading too.. Patience is a virtue…you’ll hit that goal when you’re meant too 🤗💗
Have a beautiful day world 🤗💗
Have you ever been so shocked by someone else’s behavior that it truly made you feel like you weren’t sure if it was you or if it was them????? 😵🙄🤔.
Well that’s exactly what I’ve been going through for the past week.. So much so that I had to take a break from social media to get my head back on straight and take a good look at the situation and process it fully… 🤔🙄🤔🙄🤔…
I’ve always been a people person as well as being very spontaneous yet had always worried about what others thought about what I was doing and about myself in general 🙄 😩🤔😩..
It took me a loooonnnnggg time to not worry about what others thought about me, especially when it came to my doing what I needed to do for me and my peace of mind yet as we all look for a little validation, it totally threw me for a huge loop when someone I know (or should I say I thought I knew) stopped talking to me because I haven’t begun my journey in the bus yet! 😒🙄🤔😒…
Yes I went there…
Not being sure if it was them or me because I don’t like disappointing people in general 😖
I have never been one that’s afraid of change and I don’t have any problem with being spontaneous .. Yet this is HUGE and being that I am embarking on this journey alone (something else I’ve never ever done) “I” need to know that all my ducks are in a row with the bus and with myself especially emotionally 😏
The journey in the bus is a huge huge huge life change for me and for the first time in my life I actually want to do it right in every manner..
Although it is taking me longer than even I anticipated.. I’m taking my time.. So that when I drive away I’ll know that everything with the bus is mechanically sound and that I am truly emotionally ready to begin my journey to heal from the loss of my son and begin MY new life 🙏💗
What others may feel isn’t really relevant because this is my journey and however long it takes me to begin is OK..
It’s my journey to take when and only when….
I AM READY!!! 💗🙏💗
The Things You’re Looking At Will Change Too
Life isn’t a one way street and neither are the roads that lead us to our goals and dreams… There are so many ways to look at things, yet we tend to get set on only one way and then get disappointed when it doesn’t go the way we hoped.
When we only look at one way of doing something or going somewhere, we’re not looking at all our options and in all reality there’s many ways to do things and many roads to take to get to the same place.
Just because we get a negative reaction when we thought we’d see a positive one, doesn’t mean we’re doing it wrong, going about it the wrong way or going down the wrong road… It usually means we need to step back, pause and look at all our options.
Sometimes all we need to do is change the way were looking at it and and change our point of view, and when we do we’ll totally see what we’re looking at changes too…
I’m so close reaching my goal.. And I am asking for your help to do so. Most have read my story and know what it’s about. Please help if you are able and or share the link to get my story out and make this journey my reality. I’m ready to heal and ready to live again and we are so close to making this happen so I can keep my promise by honoring my son and sprinkling his ashes at the places he wanted me too… Thank you all for sharing and thank you for all your support. I AM grateful