Hello World and Happy Day My Friends 🤗.
The last few days I’ve been doing a lot of things in the bus.. Kinda like nesting…
Getting things situated where I want them, getting organized, building a new bench that turns into a bed and setting up routes, places and people I wanna see and basically just getting ready to get ready to hit the road 😯…
I’ve also been doing a lot of contemplating and being that my journey in the bus is only 3 months away, I got really sad about my son and my dog not being physically here with me 😢 ..
Of course I know they will always be with me, yet I’m also fully aware that I’ll have sad days too and that’s also ok 😢😢..
So I took a few days to process my thoughts and let my feelings out for a while… Then last night I released them and today I woke up with a smile…
So remember that when you’re up in your head.. that being alone is ok… process your thoughts then release them and wake up to a brand new day 💗🤗💗..
Have a fantabulous day world 💗
Hello World & Happy Day My Friends 🤗💗
Have you ever noticed that during the winter season and the holidays we tend to get more burnt out then other times of the year? 🤔🤔…
We catch colds easier, we’re way more tired and stressed too.. is it because it’s cold out?? Is it because it’s Christmas and we’re rushing around like lunatics??
Or is it simply because we get so caught up in everything we want to get done before the end of the year that we forget to stop and take time out for ourselves? 🤔🤔🤔.
Almost everyone I know is either stressed because of Christmas, saying they don’t have enough time or money to get stuff done or they are sick as a dog with a cold or flu!!
Hmmmmm 🤔🤔🤔 there really isn’t any difference between this time of year and any other time of year yet we make ourselves crazy and wind up getting burnt out, physically ill or both!! 😥😖😷..
We truly are in control of our physical and emotional well being and our body does give us cues when we need to chill out and slow down…
The problem is..
We usually don’t listen until it’s too late…
We wind up exhausted or physically ill and then we can’t do anything… Which again makes everything worse!!! 🙁🙄🤔..
No holiday, job or person is worth your getting burnt out or sick…
Listen to your body…
Watch out for the cues…
Slow down a little bit and remember to take care of YOU!! 😊..
The Craziest Day Of The Year
Ok so why on earth do people make today the craziest day of the year?? I participated in Black Friday sales one time and I swore I’d never do it again and I haven’t!!! 🤔😱
The first thing I saw online when I woke up this morning were articles about people getting trampled on, arrested and sent to the hospital because of a certain item on sale in Walmart and I was like REALLY?????
Is anything on earth really worth getting hurt or hurting another to get??? Hmmmmm???🤔🤔🤔.
The holidays are supposed to be a happy time, a time of giving, a time of sharing and a time of showing gratitude to and for those we love…
Yet the media and stores make it a day of competition and that too me is totally the opposite of what the holiday is supposed to be about!!! 😮🤔..
For all of you that participate in this crazy negative pumped up day.. More power to you…
Yet please try to remember what the holiday season is supposed to be about and be careful cause no gift is so important that you have to fight tooth and nail to get….
Today is just another day of the year so breath for goodness sake!!!
Have a calm and beautiful day world 💗🤗
No matter what the situation is…
No matter what you’ve left behind…
No matter how hard things may get…
No matter how long it takes…
Your dreams are right in front of you…
There’s a reason the rearview mirror is so small 💗🤗💗
Goodnight Universe 💗🤗💗
Since I threw my back out last week, I’ve had plenty of time to think and of course there’s been frustration, anger and disappointment because I’ve basically been flat on my back in bed for a week not able to do anything but rest (which I don’t do well) yet this morning when I woke up all I could do was laugh…. 😁😂😁😂😁..
I write a lot about taking care of ourselves both physically and mentally yet here I am laying in bed laughing cause I did just the opposite 🤔🙄😮
Yes it’s much easier to preach than to practice what we preach yet I sat in bed for the past few days being angry at myself for getting myself hurt and frustrated cause I literally can’t do anything yet .. hmmmm??? 🙄🤔🙄
There really isn’t any rhyme or reason to why we are so much harder on ourselves then we are on others yet when we can stop, pause, take a look at the situation and instead of getting angry at ourselves or at the situation we can sit back and laugh…
That’s when you know your in a good place…
Cause seriously once it’s done it’s done and all we can do is keep on moving forward and do whatever we need to do to get going again 😁😁😁
Don’t allow any setback or situation get you stuck in a yucky place… Stop, pause, breathe and laugh cause laughing truly does heal everything 😂🤗😂
Have a beautiful day world 🤗💗
It’s The Only One You’ve Got
Silly Saturday Video day
Happy “Silly Saturday” World 😏🙃😯🙃…..
Yeah I did it again… Really need to learn when to stop… Spent the day in the hospital for tweeking my back… Yet this time it wasn’t all my fault 😮😣😮😣😮…
There isn’t much that I’m afraid of yet my biggest girly ewwwwwww AHHHHHHH run fast phobia is a snake.. Which of course my daughter who knows that and is always playing pranks on me with rubber snakes knows that oh too well and on Thursday right after I told her my back was hurting cause I lifted something wrong, she sent me the second video and yep out it went lol lol 😂😂😂😂 she didn’t do it on purpose it went out cause I jumped…. It was actually really funny cause I couldn’t stop laughing afterwards😣🐍😣🐍😣🐍😣🐍..
Needless to say I decided instead of writing a poem today I’d try to make a Snapchat video without laughing and I actually succeeded ☺☺☺.. I’ve always called Saturday “Silly Saturday” a day to have fun and be silly and hence the two videos above 🙃😮😯😏😯🙃😮😏😯🙃..
Taking care of ourselves both physically and mentally is so important to do.. So have a “Silly Saturday” and do something you love to do 🙃😂🙃😂🙃😂🙃😂🙃
Have a happy Silly Saturday world 😯🙃😯
Have you ever been so shocked by someone else’s behavior that it truly made you feel like you weren’t sure if it was you or if it was them????? 😵🙄🤔.
Well that’s exactly what I’ve been going through for the past week.. So much so that I had to take a break from social media to get my head back on straight and take a good look at the situation and process it fully… 🤔🙄🤔🙄🤔…
I’ve always been a people person as well as being very spontaneous yet had always worried about what others thought about what I was doing and about myself in general 🙄 😩🤔😩..
It took me a loooonnnnggg time to not worry about what others thought about me, especially when it came to my doing what I needed to do for me and my peace of mind yet as we all look for a little validation, it totally threw me for a huge loop when someone I know (or should I say I thought I knew) stopped talking to me because I haven’t begun my journey in the bus yet! 😒🙄🤔😒…
Yes I went there…
Not being sure if it was them or me because I don’t like disappointing people in general 😖
I have never been one that’s afraid of change and I don’t have any problem with being spontaneous .. Yet this is HUGE and being that I am embarking on this journey alone (something else I’ve never ever done) “I” need to know that all my ducks are in a row with the bus and with myself especially emotionally 😏
The journey in the bus is a huge huge huge life change for me and for the first time in my life I actually want to do it right in every manner..
Although it is taking me longer than even I anticipated.. I’m taking my time.. So that when I drive away I’ll know that everything with the bus is mechanically sound and that I am truly emotionally ready to begin my journey to heal from the loss of my son and begin MY new life 🙏💗
What others may feel isn’t really relevant because this is my journey and however long it takes me to begin is OK..
It’s my journey to take when and only when….
I AM READY!!! 💗🙏💗