It’s OK To Show Them Too!
Last night I was talking with a very good friend that was upset because he was always told growing up that a man isn’t supposed to cry! A man isn’t supposed to show his feelings and that it makes him weak if he does!
THAT IS ONE OF MY BIGGEST HUGEST MOST GIGANTIC PET PEEVES!!!
WHY AREN’T MEN SUPPOSED TO SHOW THEIR TRUE FEELINGS??
WHY ARE THEY TAUGHT NOT TO SHOW THEM??
THEY ARE ALLOWED & THEY SHOULD!!!!!!
I raised my boys to know that it’s OK to cry, it’s OK to show how you feel no matter what and every one of their girlfriends throughout the years loved that part of them and I do too!
Society sucks in that manner because there is nothing wrong with crying! There is nothing wrong with showing your true feelings..
In fact it’s healthy to do so!!!
Women are told they are too sensitive when we show our emotions and men are taught not to show them!!
How ass backwards is that?????
To all the men out there that were told that showing your feeling isn’t OK… BULL!!!
To all the women out there that are told you’re too sensitive… BULL!!!
Showing how you feel is showing that you are real… So allow yourself to honour your feelings and allow yourself to be real!!!
Cause They Always Come Back
In the past few days I’ve had a bunch of feelings and emotions pop up out of nowhere yet because I’ve learned to allow them rather then to fight or stuff them, I’ve also learned that I feel 100% better when I deal with them and work through them right away.
In the past if it was fear of something or sadness I’d stuff the feelings or ignore them as if they weren’t there, trying to be a “strong ” person and not let things get to me… Showing your feelings isn’t a sign off weakness, it’s actually a sign off strength, a sign that does you are REAL yet society doesn’t help in that manner and neither does education and or sometimes people.
We are taught from a child to NOT cry, NOT to show or say how we truly feel, NOT to let others see when your hurting etc and I just don’t get that because it always comes back no matter what it comes back 10 fold, and it’s harder to deal with cause it brings up years of past shit and it when we last expect it too and then we just have to deal and heal from it all over again😡🤔😡
Feelings are a part of our being and to hide them is hiding who we truly are!! Always always allow yourself to feel.. Whether you’re mad, glad, sad or scared don’t hide how you feel, don’t stuff them and don’t pretend they aren’t there cause when we deal with them head on they are temporary.. When we stuff and hide them they last forever until we deal with them head on. So feel them, show them, allow them and process them cause when you do you’ll be glad you did!!
Goodnight Universe 🤗❤
Today was a very emotional and somewhat overwhelming day… I wish I could show you all the text I received from someone I met on IG through my writing…I’ve never met her personally yet when she needed someone to talk to I was there, not because I had too and not for any other reason other than she needed a shoulder, an ear and to hear that it’s ok to feel, it’s ok to be sad and it’s ok to cry A LOT.. cause crying cleanses the soul and one day laughter will heal it … And the text I received today out of the blue was from her reminding me of our talk and how much it helped her through a very trying time in her life… ❤
My point in saying this is to remind everyone that kindness matters so much… Sometimes just an ear to listen or a shoulder for someone to lean on or cry on is all someone needs and it can truly change someones life… 🙏❤🙏
There is so much hate and cruelty in the world today… BE that friend, be that person, be that shoulder or ear… Not because you have to.. Because you care and because our world desperately needs it…and one day so may you!!! It truly is through kindness and love that one by one we WILL change our world!!!
Much love, kindness and peace to you all
Our World Needs More People That Truly Care
Thank you to all that have been that shoulder for me…
Thank you to all that have wiped my tears and lent me their light when mine was dim…
Thank you for sharing you with me and for all that have stuck with me on this journey and to all those that have prayed and continue to pray for my days to get easier and for this pain to be lighter too bear…
For all of you I am thankful, for you all I am grateful…
I know the feelings will always be here because the only constant in this world is love and love out lives us all.❤
❤ Goodnight Universe ❤🙏❤ Dreams World ❤
Ok sooooo you all know that writing is my passion, yet very few of you know that I also make jewelry, cover blank journals with different designs I make with clay and little what I call stress or wish boxes (which are sorta like God boxes yet mine you have to literally break to get the stress note, wish or whatever little note you put in it out of it, so once you put it in, you give it to the universe and can’t take it back unless you break it lol) 🤔😉😆
Well in the midst of making a journal for a friend’s upcoming birthday, I was getting frustrated and spilled a jar of glitter glue DYE right down my chest… 🤔😒😕
Yeppers lol lol so now I literally have a bright purple glittery chest which is gonna take about a week to get off cause it stains bad… 🤔😂
Needless to say I went straight from WTF to LMFAO HARD… 😂😂
Moral of the story…
There is nothing and I mean nothing on this Earth that should ever get you to the point of giving up and getting angry…
It’s not worth it and although at that moment it might piss you off bad… you’ll only laugh about it later… So brush it off and keep going cause anger gets you nowhere but laughter will take you far…
Keep on keeping on and laugh the day away 😂😂
We tend to hide our emotions especially when we’re sad…. We try to stuff them way inside and hide the pain we feel.
Don’t ever hide your emotions for its not a good thing to do… It will come back up eventually and it won’t ever go away… You’ve got to deal with each emotions you have and stop hiding how your feel…
Crying cleanses your heart & soul😢🙏❤Laughter helps you heal!!! 😢
🙏,Goodnight🙏 Universe 🙏
Bus Update— To get the bus mechanically sound so I don’t get stuck on the road, it’s going to cost $628, then insurance and registration is another $225 … Sooooo here I am again asking for your help…
You all know my story and I cannot do this all by myself… I really would like to be on the road by July cause otherwise I’ll be traveling in the snow which and the places my son wanted his ashes spread are closed from mid October through May… So there’s my dilemma and I’m asking for help to get this done. The active link is below and with your help I can get on the road, safe and before it gets cold.
Thank you for your support… I AM Grateful
Did you know that adults laugh approximately 15 times a day, whereas a child laughs approximately 400 times per day?
It is so very important for us to remember to take time out to play, be silly, have fun and laugh so hard it hurts!!!! We get sooooo busy and consumed with our dreams, our goals and our daily lives that we don’t take time for ourselves.
When we see a bunch of children laughing and playing it always brings a smile to our face and yet we don’t do the same… Take time out to have some fun, let your inner child out and take some time to have a blast, be silly and laugh.. Take time out to play… Take time out for YOU!!!
.Most of you know my story and I am now only $780 away from reaching my goal and getting that shuttle bus and now have 2 weeks instead of have 8 days to get it paid off and get it off the property where it is…. I still cannot do this alone yet I believe and have no doubt’s that with your help I will…..
I totally get that times are tough and most of you don’t know me, yet this is so very important to me and I still need your help to make it happen. I’m ready to begin my journey to heal .. I’m ready to keep my promise and honor my sons last wishes….
Please help if you are able or share my story so that together we can make this possible for me to do… The active link is above and below.
Thank you all for sharing you with me….and thank you for being with me on this difficult journey.. For it’s all of you that have helped me see that I will not be and am not on this journey alone!!! ….