Hello World and Happy Day My Friends 🤗.
The last few days I’ve been doing a lot of things in the bus.. Kinda like nesting…
Getting things situated where I want them, getting organized, building a new bench that turns into a bed and setting up routes, places and people I wanna see and basically just getting ready to get ready to hit the road 😯…
I’ve also been doing a lot of contemplating and being that my journey in the bus is only 3 months away, I got really sad about my son and my dog not being physically here with me 😢 ..
Of course I know they will always be with me, yet I’m also fully aware that I’ll have sad days too and that’s also ok 😢😢..
So I took a few days to process my thoughts and let my feelings out for a while… Then last night I released them and today I woke up with a smile…
So remember that when you’re up in your head.. that being alone is ok… process your thoughts then release them and wake up to a brand new day 💗🤗💗..
Have a fantabulous day world 💗
You’ll Forever Be In My Heart
Hello World 💗🙏💗
It truly is amazing how we feel about our pets…
They aren’t just an animal that lives with us, they truly become a family member and a huge part of your heart!
Last night I lost my best friend..
My little Chica 😢 she was 16 years old (112 in human years) lived a great life and enhanced mine immensely…
I got her when she was 2 yrs old and she literally went everywhere with me.. my little ride and die partner and losing her truly feels like I lost my best friend, my baby 😢
So today I’m dedicating my post to my baby and to all those who have lost theirs.
The unconditional love we receive from them is unparalleled and they deserve just as much acknowledgement, if not more!!!
Rest in Paradise little Chica, I love you more than words can say… You will be missed so very much… Yet in my heart you’ll always stay!!! 💗😢
It’s OK To Show Them Too!
Last night I was talking with a very good friend that was upset because he was always told growing up that a man isn’t supposed to cry! A man isn’t supposed to show his feelings and that it makes him weak if he does!
THAT IS ONE OF MY BIGGEST HUGEST MOST GIGANTIC PET PEEVES!!!
WHY AREN’T MEN SUPPOSED TO SHOW THEIR TRUE FEELINGS??
WHY ARE THEY TAUGHT NOT TO SHOW THEM??
THEY ARE ALLOWED & THEY SHOULD!!!!!!
I raised my boys to know that it’s OK to cry, it’s OK to show how you feel no matter what and every one of their girlfriends throughout the years loved that part of them and I do too!
Society sucks in that manner because there is nothing wrong with crying! There is nothing wrong with showing your true feelings..
In fact it’s healthy to do so!!!
Women are told they are too sensitive when we show our emotions and men are taught not to show them!!
How ass backwards is that?????
To all the men out there that were told that showing your feeling isn’t OK… BULL!!!
To all the women out there that are told you’re too sensitive… BULL!!!
Showing how you feel is showing that you are real… So allow yourself to honour your feelings and allow yourself to be real!!!
Cause They Always Come Back
In the past few days I’ve had a bunch of feelings and emotions pop up out of nowhere yet because I’ve learned to allow them rather then to fight or stuff them, I’ve also learned that I feel 100% better when I deal with them and work through them right away.
In the past if it was fear of something or sadness I’d stuff the feelings or ignore them as if they weren’t there, trying to be a “strong ” person and not let things get to me… Showing your feelings isn’t a sign off weakness, it’s actually a sign off strength, a sign that does you are REAL yet society doesn’t help in that manner and neither does education and or sometimes people.
We are taught from a child to NOT cry, NOT to show or say how we truly feel, NOT to let others see when your hurting etc and I just don’t get that because it always comes back no matter what it comes back 10 fold, and it’s harder to deal with cause it brings up years of past shit and it when we last expect it too and then we just have to deal and heal from it all over again😡🤔😡
Feelings are a part of our being and to hide them is hiding who we truly are!! Always always allow yourself to feel.. Whether you’re mad, glad, sad or scared don’t hide how you feel, don’t stuff them and don’t pretend they aren’t there cause when we deal with them head on they are temporary.. When we stuff and hide them they last forever until we deal with them head on. So feel them, show them, allow them and process them cause when you do you’ll be glad you did!!
Goodnight Universe 🤗❤
Today was a very emotional and somewhat overwhelming day… I wish I could show you all the text I received from someone I met on IG through my writing…I’ve never met her personally yet when she needed someone to talk to I was there, not because I had too and not for any other reason other than she needed a shoulder, an ear and to hear that it’s ok to feel, it’s ok to be sad and it’s ok to cry A LOT.. cause crying cleanses the soul and one day laughter will heal it … And the text I received today out of the blue was from her reminding me of our talk and how much it helped her through a very trying time in her life… ❤
My point in saying this is to remind everyone that kindness matters so much… Sometimes just an ear to listen or a shoulder for someone to lean on or cry on is all someone needs and it can truly change someones life… 🙏❤🙏
There is so much hate and cruelty in the world today… BE that friend, be that person, be that shoulder or ear… Not because you have to.. Because you care and because our world desperately needs it…and one day so may you!!! It truly is through kindness and love that one by one we WILL change our world!!!
Much love, kindness and peace to you all
Our World Needs More People That Truly Care
Thank you to all that have been that shoulder for me…
Thank you to all that have wiped my tears and lent me their light when mine was dim…
Thank you for sharing you with me and for all that have stuck with me on this journey and to all those that have prayed and continue to pray for my days to get easier and for this pain to be lighter too bear…
For all of you I am thankful, for you all I am grateful…
I know the feelings will always be here because the only constant in this world is love and love out lives us all.❤
❤ Goodnight Universe ❤🙏❤ Dreams World ❤
Ok sooooo you all know that writing is my passion, yet very few of you know that I also make jewelry, cover blank journals with different designs I make with clay and little what I call stress or wish boxes (which are sorta like God boxes yet mine you have to literally break to get the stress note, wish or whatever little note you put in it out of it, so once you put it in, you give it to the universe and can’t take it back unless you break it lol) 🤔😉😆
Well in the midst of making a journal for a friend’s upcoming birthday, I was getting frustrated and spilled a jar of glitter glue DYE right down my chest… 🤔😒😕
Yeppers lol lol so now I literally have a bright purple glittery chest which is gonna take about a week to get off cause it stains bad… 🤔😂
Needless to say I went straight from WTF to LMFAO HARD… 😂😂
Moral of the story…
There is nothing and I mean nothing on this Earth that should ever get you to the point of giving up and getting angry…
It’s not worth it and although at that moment it might piss you off bad… you’ll only laugh about it later… So brush it off and keep going cause anger gets you nowhere but laughter will take you far…
Keep on keeping on and laugh the day away 😂😂