Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say

Remember Setting Boundaries Is Perfectly OK

Hello World & Happy Day My Friends πŸ’–πŸ˜˜πŸ’–

I’ve always been a blunt person and have always said what I mean and mean what I say… And I can totally admit that I can tend to be brutally honest when it comes to certain things…

Yet I’ve never ever had time for people that beat around the bush or when someone asks my opinion they turn around and get all butt hurt when I express how I feel about what they asked me about πŸ€”πŸ€¨πŸ€”

Whiners are a huge pet peeve of mine…

I get that we all hear, see and process things differently and I get that we all need to vent, yet vent about it then do something about it..

Don’t sit there and whine or bitch about it constantly… Get it off your chest then find a solution…

No matter what it is… Period!!!…🀨😠🀨

My point in all this is:

There’s certain things we need to set boundaries for and it doesn’t matter what it’s about… It can be as simple as someone asking your opinion about a certain subject…

Setting boundaries are a safety precaution for yourself..

Just like saying NO…

You don’t have to explain yourself when you’re doing what you want to do.. Especially when the boundry you set is for protecting YOU!!! πŸ˜‰πŸ’–πŸ˜‰..

Have a beYOUtiful day world πŸ’–

Ricci πŸ’•

Going Around A Roundabout

Slow Down & Pace Things Out

Hello World & Happy Day My Friends

Why is it that when Mondays come around we hit the gate running only to be all worn out by the end of the week???πŸ€”

This morning when I woke up my head was going so fast with all the things I want to get done this week that I felt like my head was driving around a roundabout 😡 Stuck in the inside lane when I needed to be on the outside lane 😲

So needless to say I had to step back, slow down and prioritize not only my today list, but my this week list too..πŸ˜•

So instead of running out the gate, learn to pace things out… This way your head won’t feel like you’re going around a roundabout πŸ™ƒπŸ˜πŸ™ƒ

Have a great move a little slower Monday my friends πŸ€—πŸ’—πŸ€—

Ricci πŸ’•

The Only Thing You CAN Control

Is Who You Are Within

Hello World and Happy Day My Friends πŸ€—.
It always amazes me how whenever you’re having a discussion about certain subjects like politics or religion, if you don’t think and feel how the other person thinks or feels..

Your wrong…

And… They will do anything to try to convince you that how they think or feel is how you should think or feel too πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€”

We are all taught to stand up for what we believe as well as to speak our own truths yet others will totally try to change how you feel about things and try to convince you that what they believe is right and what you believe is wrong….

hmmmmmm πŸ€”

We all have the right to have an opinion, we all have the right to believe what we believe…

What we don’t have the right to do is to tell another how they should think or feel and we don’t have the right to tell someone that what they believe and or feel is wrong, yet alone try to convince them into believing that your way is the right and only way…πŸ™„πŸ€”

If I see a flower in a field and say “what a pretty pink flower” and you think the flower is lavender… Does that mean I’m wrong and you’re right???


Cause we all see, hear and process things differently and that is totally OK!!!

We can’t control the weather, we can’t control the wind… The only thing that we control is how we feel within…

Arguing is a waste of time, it depletes your energy too… You can’t control how others think because they don’t think like YOU!!!

Have a fantabulous day world πŸ’—

Ricci πŸ’•

People Will Be People

No Matter What You Say or Do

Hello World

“Sometimes it’s not the people that change… It’s their mask that falls off!” ~Unknown Author 

I’m not sure why it always amazes me when people act out of sorts… I’m always me and I’ve been the same all my life! Yet when people do a total 360Β° I tend to get shocked, surprised or totally thrown for a loop.. πŸ˜΅πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ˜±

This morning as I was doing my morning reading, I came across the above quote and it hit me hard because I’m actually going through that with a couple people that live where I do.. I do believe that people come and go into our lives for a reason.. 

Whether it be for a lesson or for life yet I don’t understand how people can be one way one minute and flip like a coin the next… πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€”

My biggest pet peeve is a two-faced person.. Maybe it’s because I’m so up front.. Maybe it’s because I’m too trusting and see the best in everyone.. Maybe it’s because I have a huge heart and am a giver… Maybe it’s because I’m an adult and don’t sugar coat shit.. I’m NOT Willy Wonka… 😠😑😠…

I use to have no problem confronting someone and was never afraid of confrontation yet throughout the years I’ve learned that it’s not worth my peace of mind or energy to engage in high school he said she said nah nah nah nah nah games..Yet it still at times gets to me 😩

Moral of this story: People will be people no matter what we say or do… Just be yourself and walk away don’t let others negativity get to you!!!!

Have a beautiful day world πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»

Ricci πŸ’•

Praying For All In Hurricane Irma’s Path

No One Can Control Mother Nature’s Wrath

Hello World,

I don’t ever do this as all of you know, yet being that I live in Florida I of course can’t get it out of my mind… πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€”

I have family in Puerto Rico, and friends in Miami and the Keys… And hurricane Irma is already classified as a category 6 hurricane. 

So I’m asking all to send their love and light to all in Hurricane Irma’s Path… Cause Mother Nature is no joke and we cannot control her wrath…πŸ’¨πŸ’¦πŸ’¨

So to all my friends that are in her way I’m sending all my love…  I pray that you will all be safe and I’m sending light from up above πŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’Ÿ Be Safe My Friends πŸ™πŸ™

Goodnight Universe β€πŸ€—β€

Ricci πŸ’•

Things We Can and Can’t Control

Don’t Let Them Get In Your Way

Hello World,

We tend to stress and worry over things we can’t control or change… Yet stress and worry doesn’t fix anything it only gets in our way…. I taught my kids to think like this and I really try to too… Yet sometimes stress and worry is the first thing that we do…πŸ™„πŸ€”πŸ™„

Think about the things you do and what you CAN control and change… Sometimes it’s just a little thing that needs to be rearranged.

So don’t let life’s situations stop you and get in your way… Do the things you can do to change things and go out and have a beautiful day!!!!πŸŒ»πŸ€—

I’m so close to bringing the bus home.. and making my dreams come true .. thank you all for helping and for all you do. The link is in my bio so please help me if you can or share the link so that I can go and continue on with my plans. To spread my son’s ashes at the places he wanted to see, to continue on this journey of healing and to honor him and me. Thank you thank you thank you ALL πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ’•

πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ» Have A Beautiful Day World πŸŒ»πŸ€—πŸŒ»

Ricci πŸ’•

There’s Always More Good Than Bad

Let The Day Go and Move On

Hello World,

It is said that a dragonfly symbolizes letting go of anything we can’t control, moving on and that anything IS possible…🌹

For the past 4 days a beautiful blue dragonfly comes over to my dogs pen every time I go outside and doesn’t even move when I get close…So close I could almost touch it ❀ 

Is it a sign? I don’t know yet I do know that at the end of our day whether good or bad we must let the day go and move on… We can’t dwell on things in our past cause none of it can be changed…. It doesn’t mean we have to forget… We just have to let go to move on…. Sweet dreams my friends 🌹❀

I’m down to only needing $200 to bring the bus home and paying off the mechanic and I need your help to continue my journey of healing and letting go and to spread my sons ashes along the way…Most of you know my story and about my gofundme campaign and the promise I made to my son…. please help if you are able for every little bit helps or share the link below so I can do this, because I truly believe that it is time to let go and continue my journey, it’s time to move on and I AM ready πŸ™β€ 

❀😴❀ Goodnight Universe ❀😴❀

Ricci ❀