Black Friday

The Craziest Day Of The Year


Hello World 

Ok so why on earth do people make today the craziest day of the year?? I participated in Black Friday sales one time and I swore I’d never do it again and I haven’t!!! ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฑ

The first thing I saw online when I woke up this morning were articles about people getting trampled on, arrested and sent to the hospital because of a certain item on sale in Walmart and I was like REALLY????? 

Is anything on earth really worth getting hurt or hurting another to get??? Hmmmmm???๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”.

The holidays are supposed to be a happy time, a time of giving, a time of sharing and a time of showing gratitude to and for those we love… 

Yet the media and stores make it a day of competition and that too me is totally the opposite of what the holiday is supposed to be about!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿค”..

For all of you that participate in this crazy negative pumped up day.. More power to you… 

Yet please try to remember what the holiday season is supposed to be about and be careful cause no gift is so important that you have to fight tooth and nail to get…. 

Today is just another day of the year so breath for goodness sake!!!

Have a calm and beautiful day world ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿค—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Setting Boundaries Is Healthy

Saying NO Is Too


Hello World, 

Setting boundaries isn’t always easy especially when it comes to family and people you’ve known for a really long time… 

It requires you to say NO NO NO without guilt filling your mind…๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„

I’ve always been a giver, it’s just who I am.. Yet learning to say no without feeling guilty was one of the hardest things for me to do… ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ.

NO truly is a complete sentence and yet for some reason we tend to want to explain our reasons for saying NO… 

They say we don’t owe anyone an explanation when we say NO… Yet why does it feel so yucky or mean when we don’t give an explanation???

hmmmmm ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”

Setting boundaries and saying NO shows that you know your limits of what you will and will not do… and your boundaries will be different towards different people too.. 

So don’t get mad or judge when people say NO to you… Cause setting boundaries is healthy and important for your peace of mind too!!๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—.

Have a beautiful day world ๐Ÿค—โค๐Ÿค—

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

People Will Be People

No Matter What You Say or Do


Hello World

“Sometimes it’s not the people that change… It’s their mask that falls off!” ~Unknown Author 

I’m not sure why it always amazes me when people act out of sorts… I’m always me and I’ve been the same all my life! Yet when people do a total 360ยฐ I tend to get shocked, surprised or totally thrown for a loop.. ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜ฑ

This morning as I was doing my morning reading, I came across the above quote and it hit me hard because I’m actually going through that with a couple people that live where I do.. I do believe that people come and go into our lives for a reason.. 

Whether it be for a lesson or for life yet I don’t understand how people can be one way one minute and flip like a coin the next… ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”

My biggest pet peeve is a two-faced person.. Maybe it’s because I’m so up front.. Maybe it’s because I’m too trusting and see the best in everyone.. Maybe it’s because I have a huge heart and am a giver… Maybe it’s because I’m an adult and don’t sugar coat shit.. I’m NOT Willy Wonka… ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ …

I use to have no problem confronting someone and was never afraid of confrontation yet throughout the years I’ve learned that it’s not worth my peace of mind or energy to engage in high school he said she said nah nah nah nah nah games..Yet it still at times gets to me ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Moral of this story: People will be people no matter what we say or do… Just be yourself and walk away don’t let others negativity get to you!!!!

Have a beautiful day world ๐ŸŒป๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒป

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

Say What You Mean And Mean What You Say

Don’t Read Between Lines That Aren’t There


I’ve always been an upfront person and never held things back.. my favorite thing to say to people was “I say what I mean and I mean what I say, there’s no need to read between the lines” cause whatever comes out if my mouth is how I’m feeling at that time”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”

When someone asks you how you’re doing and we say we’re okay or FINE.. There’s always something else going on deep within our mind. I once was told many years ago the acronym of FINE… and when I heard it I had to laugh cause it’s on point every time… F.I.N.E = Fuc***up, Insecure, Neurotic & Emotional… And that usually is the truth.. Words are very important so mean exactly what you say… Cause words like okay or fine can make or break your day!!! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™„

I’ve always been an upfront person and never held things back and people always came to me for advice cause they knew I wouldn’t sugar coat anything. My favorite thing to say to people was “I say what I mean and I mean what I say, there’s no need to read between the lines” cause whatever comes out of my mouth is how I’m feeling at that time”๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”

When someone asks you how you’re doing and we say we’re okay or FINE.. There’s always something else going on deep within our mind. I once was told many years ago the acronym of FINE… and when I heard it I had to laugh cause it’s on point every time… F.I.N.E = Fuc***up, Insecure, Neurotic & Emotional… And that usually is the truth.. Words are very important so mean exactly what you say… Cause words like okay or fine can make or break your day!!! ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿค”

In order for me to have electricity to run the fridge and other things while Iโ€™m stopped at night without using the engines battery, I need a 2000 watt inverter and two 12volt marine batteries which costs $364 total. I would also like to get a 200 watt solar panel kit which would keep the inverter batteries charged at all times and the cost for the kit is $390. My gofundme link is still active and is below for anyone that can help. Thank you to all that have helped me get to where I am today, words canโ€™t express my gratitude for you all โค๐Ÿ˜˜โค๐Ÿ˜˜โค

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Goodnight Universe โค ๐Ÿ˜˜

Ricci ๐Ÿ’•

To Think or To Feel

That’s A Hell Of A Question


Hello World,

Our minds are very powerful yet can be tricky too… It can guide us along our way and can confuse us on what we should do.๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

Getting your heart and your mind to match is not an easy task… Our minds will tell us one thing and or hearts will say something totally different. So which one do we listen to? How do we know if we should go with what our mind says or go with what we feel… Both of them are a part of us, both of them are real..  โค๐Ÿค”โค๐Ÿค”โค๐Ÿค”โค

I believe in following my heart and what I feel inside cause my gut reaction has always been right and my mind sometimes will tell me to flee, to fight or hide… ๐Ÿค”โค๐Ÿค”โค๐Ÿค”โค

Go with what you’re feeling and listen to your gut… Cause your mind can be a tricky place and you don’t want to live a life of if’s, and’s or but’s…… โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™โค

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You all know my story and what Iโ€™m trying to do and yesterday a very special person and someone I hold deep within my heart helped me get closer to my dream. I now only need $328 more to pay the mechanic and be able to continue the journey I promised my son I would doโ€ฆ โคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโคโค

Please help if you are able because i cannot do this alone or share the link in my bio so I can continue the journey to spread my sons ashes, continue living and healโ€ฆ I AM ready ๐Ÿ™โค๐Ÿ™

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci โค