Is Right Inside Your Heart
Hello World & Happy Day My Friends 💖🙏💖
For the past week as I’ve been doing the last few things on the bus, I’ve been reflecting a lot about my past and my upcoming new life and journey and I asked myself when was I the happiest?
Of course the first thing that popped into my head was having my children 🧑🧑👧.. but then I truly couldn’t think of anything that truly made me happy other than my kids 🤔
For most of my life I thought it was outside things that brought me happiness…
I had a a great job, made good money, got my children and myself everything that we wanted, went on amazing vacations etc yet when I really thought about all that, none of it made me truly happy…
What did make me happy was the laughs, the times we went camping and laughed so hard we cried. Cuddling on the couch watching movies…Watching them grow up, graduating from school etc and seeing them play, laugh and smile…
Those were truly the happiest times of my life and continue to be 💖🤗💖…
The little things that make you FEEL!!💖
So my friends do not look outside yourself to find your happy place… Happiness isn’t a destination it’s not a marathon race!!
So if you want true happiness the place you need to start… It truly within yourself cause happiness comes from your heart!!! 🤗💖🤗
Have A Happy Day World
Goodnight Universe 🌟💖🌟
Remember Setting Boundaries Is Perfectly OK
Hello World & Happy Day My Friends 💖😘💖
I’ve always been a blunt person and have always said what I mean and mean what I say… And I can totally admit that I can tend to be brutally honest when it comes to certain things…
Yet I’ve never ever had time for people that beat around the bush or when someone asks my opinion they turn around and get all butt hurt when I express how I feel about what they asked me about 🤔🤨🤔
Whiners are a huge pet peeve of mine…
I get that we all hear, see and process things differently and I get that we all need to vent, yet vent about it then do something about it..
Don’t sit there and whine or bitch about it constantly… Get it off your chest then find a solution…
No matter what it is… Period!!!…🤨😠🤨
My point in all this is:
There’s certain things we need to set boundaries for and it doesn’t matter what it’s about… It can be as simple as someone asking your opinion about a certain subject…
Setting boundaries are a safety precaution for yourself..
Just like saying NO…
You don’t have to explain yourself when you’re doing what you want to do.. Especially when the boundry you set is for protecting YOU!!! 😉💖😉..
Have a beYOUtiful day world 💖
This weekend I was hanging out with some friends and their children and I asked the kids what they wanted to be when they grew up… 🤔🤔🤔.
One of them said she wants to be an oceanographer to help save our oceans (which of course made me and her mom smile big) and then the little boy said he wanted to be a trash collector with a big huge truck to clean up all the trash on the beaches (which made me smile too) but his mom immediately said: “No you can’t do that, you should be a doctor to help people instead!” Hmmmmm????🤔😮🤔
Yep that opened a huge debate session cause it really bothered me that she didn’t support what he wants to do…
I never understood why anyone would try to force someone to do something they don’t want to do yet it happens all the time…
And that’s why I wrote this poem…
We don’t need permission to do the things we want to do yet there are so many parents out there that will tell their child that they won’t pay for college etc if they don’t do what they want them to do…😩😩
Don’t ever allow anyone to tell you your dreams or goals aren’t good enough or that you shouldn’t do this or that..
If it’s something you think about 24/7 then do it!!!
It’s your life and they’re your dreams so love it and live it!! 💗💗💗
Have a fantabulous day world 🌻🤗🌻
All day today I say contemplating life and thinking about those that are so close to my heart and that I love so much even though I have not seen them with my eyes…
Yet I truly feel our connection deep within my heart and soul and I dedicate this to them tonight… I dedicate this to all who love unconditionally and believe in me when i
I couldn’t get all the love and support I receive daily, plus couldn’t get any of you out of my mind today and just wanted to say…
Thank you, I love you dearly with all of my being and I AM GRATEFUL🙏❤
Stay true my friends because you do matter to me ❤🙏❤ much love always, forever & beyond
Goodnight Universe 🤗😘
Don’t Read Between Lines That Aren’t There
I’ve always been an upfront person and never held things back.. my favorite thing to say to people was “I say what I mean and I mean what I say, there’s no need to read between the lines” cause whatever comes out if my mouth is how I’m feeling at that time”🙄🤔
When someone asks you how you’re doing and we say we’re okay or FINE.. There’s always something else going on deep within our mind. I once was told many years ago the acronym of FINE… and when I heard it I had to laugh cause it’s on point every time… F.I.N.E = Fuc***up, Insecure, Neurotic & Emotional… And that usually is the truth.. Words are very important so mean exactly what you say… Cause words like okay or fine can make or break your day!!! 🙄🤔🙄🤔🙄
I’ve always been an upfront person and never held things back and people always came to me for advice cause they knew I wouldn’t sugar coat anything. My favorite thing to say to people was “I say what I mean and I mean what I say, there’s no need to read between the lines” cause whatever comes out of my mouth is how I’m feeling at that time”🙄🤔
When someone asks you how you’re doing and we say we’re okay or FINE.. There’s always something else going on deep within our mind. I once was told many years ago the acronym of FINE… and when I heard it I had to laugh cause it’s on point every time… F.I.N.E = Fuc***up, Insecure, Neurotic & Emotional… And that usually is the truth.. Words are very important so mean exactly what you say… Cause words like okay or fine can make or break your day!!! 🙄🤔
In order for me to have electricity to run the fridge and other things while I’m stopped at night without using the engines battery, I need a 2000 watt inverter and two 12volt marine batteries which costs $364 total. I would also like to get a 200 watt solar panel kit which would keep the inverter batteries charged at all times and the cost for the kit is $390. My gofundme link is still active and is below for anyone that can help. Thank you to all that have helped me get to where I am today, words can’t express my gratitude for you all ❤😘❤😘❤
Goodnight Universe ❤ 😘
So Choose Positive Words Every Day
We all have good days and bad days yet it’s up to you to decide on which one… Our words create our reality so pick ones that make your day fun 🌻
Today I’m working on the kitchen part of the bus and so very excited… (Will post pics of it later)
Yet right when we we’re putting the kitchen cabinet in (which was giving us a hard time) my friend says “it’s gonna be impossible!” and it made me stop in my tracks cause nothing is impossible and I made her take the word back…
Hahaha as soon as she said. “I take that word back” we got the cabinet in without an issue… Haha so do your best to use positive words all throughout your day… Cause once you start using negative words you just ruined a beautiful day
Still needing help to get some things I need for the bus conversion. If anyone know where I can get a 2000 watt inverter, an electric cooler, and a 200 watt solar panel kit please let me know. My gofundme link below is still active and those are really the only things left that I’m needing help with to complete the bus and begin my journey to sprinkle my son’s ashes and heal… The full story is under the picture of me and my son in the campaign just click on “Read More” to read it all. Much love my friends and thank you for all your love, support, kindness and light ❤❤🙏🙏❤❤
Goodnight Universe ❤😘❤
Your Character Is Who You Are
Tonight I was sitting with a friend taking about character, instinct and choices.. and realized they all go hand in hand… 🙏❤🙏
It’s really not about our abilities it’s about the choices we make each day.🙄🤔🙄
We can choose to be angry, we can choose to be kind, we can choose to help others or we can choose to close our minds… 🙄🤔🙄
Instinct is an untaught ability and our instinct knows wrong from right.. so follow your instincts, follow your heart and let your character shine ❤ For it’s our choices that build our character and our character is who we are… So make positive choices, cause it’s those those choices that will help you go far… ❤🙏❤
There are a few items I still need to get so I can complete the bus and make it livable.. If anyone knows where I can get a 1000 watt or higher inverter, a 100 or 200 watt solar panel kit, an electric cooler or mini fridge to help me complete the bus, It will be greatly appreciated. ❤🤗❤
My gofundme link is still active for anyone that would like to help… Or if anyone has one of those items they would be willing to donate please email me, send me a direct message or comment below. The active link is below and please click Read More to read the fully story. Please help if you are able or share the link so I can continue converting the bus and move forward with my journey to heal and honor my son 🙏❤
Goodnight Universe ❤ 🙏