So AlwaysThink Before You Speak
Hello World and Happy Day My Friends 🤗.
It always amazes me when I see someone taking their anger out on others even if it’s not the other person’s fault.. or you walk into the crossfire of someone’s anger or bad day and it becomes your fault…😱🤔
I’ve always been one that if I’m angry, having a bad day or just wake up on the wrong side of the bed, I tend to isolate.. if I’m depressed or really sad, I tend to isolate…
It’s not because of any reason other than I do not believe in projecting my mood onto anyone else…
Whether mad, sad or depressed.. if I want or need to talk about it I will… if not I’ll stay away until I work it out myself, yet I don’t ever project my yucky mood on anyone else.. especially if it’s not their fault I’m in that type of mood to begin with 🙄🤔
Taking your anger or frustration out on anyone isn’t ok…
When I am in the crossfire of someone else’s bad mood, it always reminds me that ANGER is one letter away from DANGER and the only thing that projecting your anger onto someone else does is push the other person away 🙄
Anger leads us to saying things that we don’t really feel or don’t really mean to say, and it brings up trust issues too, especially if something is said that you really don’t mean but say in the heat of the moment!
And although actions do speak louder than words, our actions when we are angry usually match the words that we say…
So whenever you are angry, remember who or what you’re angry at, think before you say a word… cause some words you can’t take back!!!
Hello World & Happy Day My Friends 🤗💗
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned through the years is to always honor your feelings.. no matter what they are… You’re feelings are always valid!! They are your feelings and no one has the right to dispute them! 🙄
Today a friend gave me a beautiful compliment saying that she loves when someone asks me if I’m ok I say “No.. But I will be!” when I’m not and I don’t ever say “I’m fine!” cause there’s always something underlying with the word FINE..(I’ll tell you my definition of FINE in a sec haha🤔…
I’ve always been one on the up and up with however I’m feeling and ever since my son passed away, I’ve been even more of an advocate for everyone male and female to show their feelings and never ever hide them…. 🤗…
Have you ever noticed that if you’re not doing ok or when someone says that they are FINE that there is usually something going on… For me FINE totally means
F=Fuc*** Up, I=Insecure, N=Neurotic, E=Emotional…
And while it may not mean all of those at the time… There is always something going on when you say I’m FINE otherwise we say… I’m ok..I’m great etc..🤔🙄🤔
Always be aware of how your feeling and never ever allow anyone to discredit how you feel cause they are your feelings and each and every one of them is valid… 🤔🙄
It truly is a gift to wear your feelings on your sleeve…
Not everyone does it and everyone should…
Cause bottling up how you feel is harmful to your health and to your well-being…
Always know that it’s ok to show others how you feel… It shows that you are human.. It shows that you are REAL!!! 🤗💗🤗.
Have a fantabulous day my friends 🤗💗
Cause Panicking Can Get You And Others Hurt
The last couple of days have been crazy with everyone watching hurricane Irma and although I too live in Florida I’m no where near it’s projected path.. Like I’m seriously 400+miles away from it’s path..
Yet today I went into town to the grocery store and the frenzied panic in the store made me leave and not get what I went there for. The look of fear and panic on everyone’s face made me realize how crazy people get and how they panic rather than calming down and focusing on what needs to get done 🙄🤔🙄..
When people panic, people get hurt and that’s scarier than the storm…We can’t control mother nature, yet we can control ourselves.. please stay calm and focus on what you need to do so you don’t hurt someone else….🙄🤔🙄🤔
I know this storm is scary yet we all now what we need to do… So take a deep breath and please be calm so you don’t hurt yourself and others too!!!🙏❤🙏
As for me I’m working in the bus and sticking to my goal… The total I need to get everything in order for me to have electricity to run the fridge and other things while I’m stopped at night without using the engine battery is down to $554 and I am so grateful.😀❤🤗
I am still needing to purchase a 2000 watt inverter and two 12volt marine batteries as well as a 200 watt solar panel kit which would keep the inverter batteries charged at all times 🤗 My gofundme link is still active and is below for anyone that can help or if anyone knows where I can get those things cheaper please let me know.
My goal date to embark on my journey is my son’s birthday October 4th and I’m so close, it’s right around the corner and I’m so excited to begin ❤🤗❤
Have a beautiful day world 🌻🌍🌻
Makes Things More Difficult To Do
Don’t let that I WANT IT NOW mindset take over things you what you want to do… Things get chaotic and messy and don’t turn out how you want them to..🤔🙄
Take time to pause, rethink the steps and take a little break… Cause in order to get the things that you want… Staying calm and focused is what its going to take 🤗❤
There are a few items I need to get so I can complete the bus… If anyone knows where I can get a 1000 watt or higher inverter, a 100 or 200 watt solar panel kit and an electric cooler or mini fridge to help me complete the bus, It will be greatly appreciated.
I will be leaving my gofundme link active for anyone that would like to help… Or if anyone has one of those items they would be willing to donate please email me, send me a direct message or comment below. The active link is below. Please help if you are able or share the link so I can continue converting the bus and keep my promise to my son 🙏
Goodnight Universe ❤ 🙏