When Things Don’t Go YOUR Way
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After posting about my latest setback with the bus and about my belief about timing…I got a lot of comments about how people admired my tenacity, strength and perserverence as well as my staying positive through it all 🤔
It made me look back on everything that has happened since I brought the bus home and I actually looked back on my whole life 🤔
All my life people have said that I was tenacious and I never really thought about it until today…
I’ve always been a go getter when it comes to something I want and I’ve never ever been a quitter… It’s just not in my nature to do so…
So I guess I am tenacious 😂
Yet for me there is no other way…
I never understood why people give up so easily on their dreams and it’s never ever crossed my mind to do so, especially with this bus project.
My point in all this is:
We all have the drive and the power to achieve whatever we want to achieve…
Perserverence is in our blood…
It’s truly part of our makeup and who we are..
Sometimes we just need to reach deep to find it.. 😉💪😉..
So do not get discouraged when things don’t go your way… Keep on doing what you need to do and go about your day..
Cause life is like an obstacle course with lots of ups and downs.. So don’t let setbacks stop you.. Stay strong and stand your ground!! 💪💖💪
Have a beautiful day world 💖
Is Right Inside Your Heart
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For the past week as I’ve been doing the last few things on the bus, I’ve been reflecting a lot about my past and my upcoming new life and journey and I asked myself when was I the happiest?
Of course the first thing that popped into my head was having my children 🧑🧑👧.. but then I truly couldn’t think of anything that truly made me happy other than my kids 🤔
For most of my life I thought it was outside things that brought me happiness…
I had a a great job, made good money, got my children and myself everything that we wanted, went on amazing vacations etc yet when I really thought about all that, none of it made me truly happy…
What did make me happy was the laughs, the times we went camping and laughed so hard we cried. Cuddling on the couch watching movies…Watching them grow up, graduating from school etc and seeing them play, laugh and smile…
Those were truly the happiest times of my life and continue to be 💖🤗💖…
The little things that make you FEEL!!💖
So my friends do not look outside yourself to find your happy place… Happiness isn’t a destination it’s not a marathon race!!
So if you want true happiness the place you need to start… It truly within yourself cause happiness comes from your heart!!! 🤗💖🤗
Have A Happy Day World
Goodnight Universe 🌟💖🌟
Hello World & Happy Day My Friends 🌻🤗🌻..
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No Is A Complete Sentence
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It took me a really long time to learn that NO is a complete sentence.. To understand that I shouldn’t feel guilty or have to give an explanation when saying no… And sometimes it’s still hard for me to say no ✋🚫🙅…
I totally get when we say no to children that they will pout or throw a fit cause they are still learning yet when an adult gets all butt hurt or gets pissed off when I say no to something.. That totally throws me for a loop… 😒🙄🤔…
There is nothing wrong with saying NO if what you’re being asked to do isn’t right for you… You don’t need to explain and you certainly shouldn’t feel guilty… Yet we tend too feel we need to explain, we feel guilty for saying no… Or the people we’re saying no to try to make you feel bad for saying it 🤔🤔🙄🙄…..
The people that respect your decision will smile and say okay.. The ones that don’t may get really mad & may even walk away… Yet don’t feel bad for saying no cause it’s a complete sentence too … Saying yes when you mean no isn’t good for them or you! 😉😉😉…
Have a beautiful day world ❤️
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It always makes me giggle when I’m on a roll doing something, make plans to totally finish it the next day and then mother nature says…
When I worked in corporate America, I always had to go go go and wouldn’t stop until I was done…
Which always stressed me out and wore me out as well..😩😩
Since I got the bus home and made a solid decision to take my time and do it right, it never fails that whenever that go go go side pops up, mother nature and the universe do something that makes me have to slow down and take a break 😂😂
Yesterday I didn’t stop with the taping and painting on the bus all day long… It was a beautiful day and that go go go side of me flared up big-time…
By the end of the day my shoulders and arms were so sore that all I did was make a salad for dinner and plopped into bed…
The whole time thinking that today I was not gonna stop until it was finished… 🙄🙄🙄…
Woke up this morning to torrential rain that hasn’t stopped…
So I guess it was mother nature’s way of making me take a break hahaha so don’t forget to stop and take a little break or two.. cause anything that must get done will get done when it needs too 😏🙃😏..
Have a beautiful day world 💗
This morning I was talking with a friend about how often we allow our past to define who we are and how NOT ok that really is. 🤔😮
We all have gone through good times and bad. We all have done good things, made mistakes and have done things we may not be proud of, yet that doesn’t define who we are and it certainly doesn’t mean that we are bad people or that because we had a not so great past it is who we are 🤔😮
Different circumstances make us do different things and how we may have acted or reacted in the past doesn’t mean we would act or react the same way to the same situation today. 😮🤔
We all have a past and we all have made mistakes…
Good bad or indifferent remember that the past is the past…
We can’t change it…
All we can do is learn from it and keep going… One of my favorite sayings is… The first time is a mistake… if we do it again it’s a choice!!!
All the things you’ve gone through have made you who you are and the past is just that..
So don’t let your past define you or stop you from moving on… Keep on striving to better yourself because everything in the past is gone! 🤗
This weekend give yourself time…
Goodnight Universe 💗