Men Have Feelings

It’s OK To Show Them Too!


Hello World

Last night I was talking with a very good friend that was upset because he was always told growing up that a man isn’t supposed to cry! A man isn’t supposed to show his feelings and that it makes him weak if he does! 

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

THAT IS ONE OF MY BIGGEST HUGEST MOST GIGANTIC PET PEEVES!!! 

WHY AREN’T MEN SUPPOSED TO SHOW THEIR TRUE FEELINGS?? 

WHY ARE THEY TAUGHT NOT TO SHOW THEM?? 

THEY ARE ALLOWED & THEY SHOULD!!!!!!

I raised my boys to know that it’s OK to cry, it’s OK to show how you feel no matter what and every one of their girlfriends throughout the years loved that part of them and I do too! 

Society sucks in that manner because there is nothing wrong with crying! There is nothing wrong with showing your true feelings.. 

In fact it’s healthy to do so!!! 

Women are told they are too sensitive when we show our emotions and men are taught not to show them!! 

How ass backwards is that????? 

To all the men out there that were told that showing your feeling isn’t OK… BULL!!! 

To all the women out there that are told you’re too sensitive… BULL!!! 

Showing how you feel is showing that you are real… So allow yourself to honour your feelings and allow yourself to be real!!! 

Ricci πŸ’•

Flexible OptimismΒ 

Can Change Your Point Of View


Hello World 

“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them!” ~Albert Einstein 

Yesterday as I was trying to figure out how to secure something in the bus that just wasn’t working right, I stopped to reassess the whole design yet my mind kept telling me it would work and it wouldn’t πŸ™„πŸ€”πŸ™„…

So I decided to move on to something else and this morning the quote from Albert Einstein popped into my head and that’s what made me write this poem… πŸ˜‰πŸ™„πŸ€”..

The mind can be very tricky and rather than looking at something from a different point of view, we tend to keep trying and wind up getting frustrated and or pessimistic and give up on the idea..😀😀. If we use flexible optimism and look at it in a different way, we can usually figure out a different way of doing it… It’s all about changing our mindset πŸ™„πŸ€”…

Moral of this story: When you start to feel pessimistic you can change that mindset too… Use flexible optimism to change your point of view πŸ˜„πŸ˜€πŸ˜„….

Have a beautifully optimistic day πŸ€—πŸ’—πŸ€—

Ricci πŸ’—

We Aren’t Invisible

We’re Here To See Each Other Through


Good evening my friends πŸ€—πŸŒ»

With all the devastation between Hurricane Harvey, Irma and the possibility of Jose… It made me think about how important it is for us all to be here for each other πŸ€”πŸ™πŸ€”.

Some things we can’t control like Mother Nature… Some things we can like offering a helping hand… It’s not something we have to do yet it’s definitely something we all should do… πŸ€—πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ™πŸ€—πŸ™πŸ€—.

Kindness doesn’t cost a thing and it can truly change someone life… We aren’t invisible yet so many turn their heads when they see someone less fortunate or not “like”they are… πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€”. 

We aren’t here to be better than or to see through each other… We are here to see each other through.. cause when it comes down to it that’s what we’re here to do… We ARE one!!! 

Goodnight night universe, Goodnight my friends πŸ€—πŸŒ»

Ricci πŸ’•

Mother Nature Is No Joke

We Cannot Control Her Wrath


Hello World,

Just an update to let everyone know I’m safe and sound… Living in Florida I’ve been through a lot yet Hurricane Irma has destroyed so many places in Florida, the Caribbean, Puerto Rico, Cuba and so many others and they all need our prayers, our love and positive energy so please continue to do so.. πŸ™β€

I am going to take a different journey once we get the ok to go to the Florida keys to assist in the cleanup cause they will be needing lots of help and I will be going as soon as I can get the inside electric going in the bus……  

I know that’s what my son would do too, so putting off my own healing journey right now is what I feel I must do too… Almost all of Southern Florida…From Tampa down to the Keys aren’t even accessible for a while yet as soon as they call for help I’ll be going down to do so..

Most of you know that I’m all about being optimistic, real, always staying positive and helping others to stay positive too and as I have been helped by so many, I am honored to be able to help others that need my help now too…. β€πŸ™β€

You all know that I still need a 2000 watt inverter and the batteries for it plus the solar panel to keep the batteries charged… Being there will be little if any electric down in the Keys these things are a necessity…the total cost i still need for that is $554… My gofundme link below is still active and I’m asking for your help so I can be of service where I’m needed most… 

Thank you all for your love, concern and constant support… I am safe… I truly am grateful for you all and grateful that I’ll have the ability to help others as others have helped me… Much love to you all … And thank you πŸ™β€πŸ™ 

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Goodnight Universe β€πŸ€—β€

Ricci πŸ’•

Praying For All In Hurricane Irma’s Path

No One Can Control Mother Nature’s Wrath


Hello World,

I don’t ever do this as all of you know, yet being that I live in Florida I of course can’t get it out of my mind… πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€”

I have family in Puerto Rico, and friends in Miami and the Keys… And hurricane Irma is already classified as a category 6 hurricane. 

So I’m asking all to send their love and light to all in Hurricane Irma’s Path… Cause Mother Nature is no joke and we cannot control her wrath…πŸ’¨πŸ’¦πŸ’¨

So to all my friends that are in her way I’m sending all my love…  I pray that you will all be safe and I’m sending light from up above πŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’Ÿ Be Safe My Friends πŸ™πŸ™

Goodnight Universe β€πŸ€—β€

Ricci πŸ’•

Attitude Affects Everything

Gratitude Affects Even More


Hello World,

Patience is a virtue and a very hard lesson as well… Yet we tend to let time get the best of us and allow it to deter or stop us from having the things we desire… Then once we achieve all the things that we want we get cocky and then we forget… That we can lose everything we have as fast as we achieved it!

Don’t allow getting everything you want in life make you think you’re better than cause that’s having an attitude that affects everything and everyone around you… Be grateful for what you have and for everything yet to come for your attitude affects everything yet being grateful affects even more πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ™ 

🌞 Have a beautiful day world 🌞

I’m down to only needing $125 to pay off the mechanic and bring the bus home. I need your help to continue my journey of healing and letting go and to spread my sons ashes along the way… I am so close to doing this.

Most of you know my story and about my GoFundMe campaign and the promise I made to my son…. please help if you are able for every little bit helps or share the link below so I can continue my journey of honoring myself and honoring my son. I truly believe that it is time to let go and continue my journey, it’s time to move on and I AM ready πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ™πŸ’•

https://www.gofundme.com/riccis-healing-journey

Ricci πŸ’•πŸ˜˜ πŸ’•