Asking For Help Is So Hard

Especially When Your A Giver

Hello World,

Hello my friends… I’ve been sitting here all morning an absolute mess and talking to my good friend in Ireland who reminded me the importance of asking for help and giving others the opportunity to help me as I’ve helped others. So I’m stepping out of my comfort zone and asking for help.


Most of you know my story about losing my middle son and know that my writings are what I am going through at that moment. I write often about stepping out of our comfort zone and taking a leap of faith… Yet I myself haven’t truly done it and it’s time for me to practice what I preach so to speak. ❤❤ A lot of people on Instagram have asked about the gofundme account my soon to be daughter-in-law started for me so I can honor my sons wishes and travel to spread his ashes at his favorite places around the country and I want to keep my promises to him and myself yet living on my disability income isn’t allowing me to save enough each month to do so by July. So I am stepping out of my comfort zone and sharing the info with you.

I’m a giver, I love helping others and will always do so and yet asking and receiving is very hard for me yet I can’t write about things that I’m not willing to do myself so I am reaching out and asking for help. ❤❤

I’ve posted the link in my Instagram profile and I’m asking for help to reach my goal.. Those that can help thank you in advance and those who can’t help, if you could share it so I can honor my son and most importantly honor myself, I’d be extremely appreciative. ❤❤

It’s time for me to let go, it’s time for me to  heal and it’s time for me to live again.

I cannot express my gratitude for all your love and support… For you all I am so very grateful.


❤❤❤ Thank you all!!! Much love always ❤❤

❤❤❤ Ricci❤❤❤❤ ❤

Author: Hello World Goodnight Universe

Hello World, My name is Ricci pronounced like Ricky, yet it's been mispronounced all my life and at my age I answer to just about anything 😊 I am a writer, a writer of motivational light. A writer about everyday life. My story is one of hope, inspiration & motivation... One that begins over a half a century ago, when life was much different than it is today. We all have our own story, for each of us is unique. Some have had it easy, some have had it hard. Yet I believe that each one of our stories can bring a bit of light to others and I hope mine will bring light to some of you. My goal is to tell my story with hope that others can see that no matter what happens throughout your life... You CAN prevail, even when it feels like you can't. For I know it's possible, even after the loss of a child, which to me is the most devastating life event ever... I know for I have and am prevailing each and every day. It isn't easy and there are days where I feel I cannot go on yet always know that You are NOT alone... Everything is possible when you believe. Everything is possible when you believe in YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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